dinner and a movie with the bfe!

"Wait a minute! This is Wednesday Night Supper time! Right?"

 

Yes, it is, and he was only too glad to pick me up and take me to Asbury Memorial for that meal! That's because it was to be pot roast, and he doesn't have beef very often, but he loves it.  

 

"Oh, that looks delicious!"

 

It was! I'm glad I was able to buy his dinner for a change. I'd already paid for mine two weeks ago, so the $8 was easy. He ate every bit of his meal, too! I mean, I ate all of mine, too, but for him that's a sure sign he enjoyed it. He liked being in Holliday Hall, too, even asking about the painting of Miss Virginia. I told him about her not liking how old she was in it, so he told me about one of the women in his Sunday group not liking her current-age photos, either. We sat with Pam and Walt, so that was nice!

 

"What's with the Dias De Los Muertos meme?"

 

Perry Foster had posted that, so I was discussing that with the physicist. Neither of us had been familiar that there were so many days associated with that event.

 

"So, you showed him the meme on your phone?"

 

Oh, no! The place mats tonight were printed for Dia De Los Muertos, which we tend to observe for Ruthie Deffley. So, I brought up that the Mexican holiday actually is for more than one day. Pretty interesting!

 

"Good to learn something new, and to share it with others, isn't it? And what was the movie that Jeff Secrest had agreed to see?"

 

Hey, it was his idea! It's the new one with Olivia Colman, a bit of funny, raunchy, comedy which she does so well! I was interested, too, in "Wicker", which promised a different kind of robot for amorous action. Alexander Skarsgard was fabulous as the man with a heart and mind inside all that basketware!

 

"Oh, I remember that he's quite fond of that actress!"

 

Yes, she's just a year younger than he is. Alexander is another two years younger, having been born in 1976. And Peter Dinklage, now 57 years old, was just fabulous as the master weaver trying to give the people what they want, only to find that the people didn't really know what they were asking for. I mean, really, who would want a perpetual baby that would never grow beyond infancy? Seriously?!

 

"What a terrible choice! Who made that?"

 

One of the women who'd been widowed when her husband fell through a hole in the roof and died. He was trying to do like the Wicker man and be handy, but he was a klutz. So the woman had requested that the weaver make her a wicker baby. She really didn't think that through. The other townspeople figured she'd had sex with the Wicker man! Did they truly not understand how preposterous that was? He had no internal organs, so sperm was out of the question. Such dolts!

 

"Not quite science literate, were they? Wow."

 

Well, the fairy tale ended on a note that the Brothers Grimm would have approved. I certainly did, and so did the bfe! Nice that Comcast helped me treat him to that movie! They gave me a $10 reward toward the ticket, so I bought his on fandango with that perk. I bought mine at NCG tonight. With luck, I'll win two free tickets to a future show there!

 

"Oh, that would be nice! They tend to have some unusual films that AMC would never show."

 

Very true. And guess what? The two of us will have another movie outing next week! An Indian film will be at the Royal Cinema for only two days, Wednesday and Thursday, so he'll have to let me know which day. He told me his afternoons are fairly free this semester, as he's just teaching two classes. Maybe we'll be able to hit one of the earlier showings. That would be good, as it's more than three hours long.

 

"Hope that works out! I know he wants to see it. Maybe y'all could meet for a late lunch and early movie one of those days."

 

We'll see. (smile!) 

whole latta nothing going on

The crew had been readying the property for the past few days.

The city had already come and made the marks for the water, sewer, and gas lines running to the house.

Then, this morning, the demolition began.

It actually wasn't nearly as loud as I had expected.

It also didn't take as long as I'd thought such a thing would.

It wasn't like the demolition on Las Vegas Boulevard when they took down the Stardust casino one year when I was there.

That was done with the strategic placement of dynamite and was over in less than the blink of an eye.

No, this was a steady, methodical, dismantling of the building that once was a home to a family with one son and three daughters.

The son has the property now, with his wife, and they decided over a year ago that the house was to be demolished down to the ground.

I'll be interested to see what new structure is built there.

 

Now, though, there's nothing of note but that lovely oak tree.

Matthew had spoken of having it cut down, but I pleaded for it to stay.

I'm glad they decided to leave it be.

byop39 for jenkins family!

How much longer will Robin be hosting these get-togethers that she and Harry started when Brandi was just a toddler?

Brandi is 43 now and she took this great photo with her mom, Mary, and Laura.

Yes, that's my two sister-in-laws  in one picture! 

And what do I have here?

Betsy and Becca!

Becca was the only one of our group to carve a pumpkin this year.

And here's one of my brothers and both of those Kameron brothers!

Mark was standing this time, while Jimmy and Smitty sat with me while I ate chili dogs and coleslaw and other party fare!

It was just as I had hoped... 

...and was almost like being at the Smiths & Kamerons Friday Fiesta!

And where was my youngest brother?

There he was, showing off his new carpentry skills to Betsy and Mary!

He's put a diagonal insert into his back fence and it's quite pretty!

Today was his 59th birthday, so I made sure to call him this morning and sing to him!

What a lovely party for him... and neither he nor Laura had to put it together!

So nice to all be together to help him celebrate!

We're all off-center, to the rear left in this shot, almost like the eye of the hurricane of pumpkins all around.

I just love this shot!

Thanks, Robin, for continuing to bring together family and friends, out there in Ellabelle!

(smile!)

a lovely evening for a byop in georgetown!

I speak of the annual Bring Your Own Pumpkin party that I've attended since 2009!!!

There's 'Bubba' Dawn and the Koz, with 'live' Stella and spirit of Delilah to welcome the guests!

I came over right after the play, so I was relegated to the yard until the hostess was done with whipping up all her goodies in the kitchen.

I was fine with that, though!

The weather was right nice, and I'd brought my sweater in case it cooled later.

Never even wore it!

Instead, I took in the vibe on the front porch as I waited for others to arrive.

Absent were the soothing chimes I've enjoyed in the past on Sunday mornings!

That was replaced by the discordant groans and howls of the various beasties out there, all revved up from their AA and AAA earlier.

Bwah ha ha!!!

Then I spotted Susan!

When I'd arrived so early, I thought of helping her feed the fish, but the party on the patio was absent today.

She was thrilled to take me instead to admire the Koz's latest addition: a mailman perched atop the mailbox, having already lost a leg to the dog!

Hahahaha!!!

That must have been inspired by Stella!

Then Michanne and her husband arrived, though they didn't tarry.

She was dropping off her latest ghoulish cake and then they were off... but not before I talked to them about that movie I'd seen with Carolyn last night.

Then I said hello to my boys: Wolfie, Frank, and Drac!

I've been enjoying running with them and their zombie friends for over a decade, though I've slowed down a bit lately.

They don't mind that at all!

Then word came: the house was open!

Time to check out Dawn's "Death by Sweets" table - wow!!!

And there was Michanne's "Maggot Head" cake to tempt those with cast-iron insides... nah, those cakes just look disgusting!

They're always delicious!

Back I bounced outside after chatting with Elaine about her 4-year-old granddaughter!

Oh, look! Russ and Arie had finished their carving and were just putting on the finishing touches!

"Do You Want To Build A Snowman?" 

They sure did, and they used pumpkins!!!

Utterly adorable!!!

It took the prize for "Best" this year and I'm sure the kids in the neighborhood will love the nod to "Frozen"!

Now, I'm the one waving to the moon, having made my goodbyes to the hosts! 

Thanks, Dawn and Chris, for outdoing yourselves once again!

Thanks, Warren, for bringing the baked beans, coleslaw, and barbecue sauces for the feast, plus bags of orange and black tortilla chips for guests to take home! 

Happy 17th birthday to Warren's daughter, Tia, tomorrow!

I'll have sweet dreams tonight!!!

kodachrome, oh, yeah!

"They give us those nice bright colors

They give us the greens of summer

Makes you think all the world's a sunny day, oh yeah
I got a Nikon camera
I love to take a photograph
So mama, don't take my Kodachrome away"

 

Ever since I heard the name of this play, that Paul Simon song from my teen years has run rampant down the corridors of my mind.

It's been at least since 1973 that I've been taking photographs.

In 1976, I took lots of photos of places in Savannah, documenting my home town before I went off to see the world with the Navy.

 

That's why I was so interested in this play that Savannah Country Day School chose for its entry into the regional one-act competition in Macon next week.

A modern play written by Adam Szymkowicz, "Kodachrome" takes place in a small town and is told by the local photographer, 'Suzanne', who has the only spoken words for the first fifteen minutes or so of the play.

Kudos to Kharis Ott for a phenomenal performance!

 

That's her, in the near-center, the blonde in the white outfit.

As the story unfolds, she is revealed to be the dead wife of the hardware store owner, 'Charlie' (Cameron Lotz), who has been bringing flowers for her grave for 4 years.

The gravedigger, 'Earl' (Andrew Montgomery), has also been bringing flowers regularly to her grave, but there's a difference: he can see and speak to her ghost.

He's become a bit alarmed that she has not yet moved on, but he's patient.

He can see the writing on the wall (another line from the song), and knows the day is coming when the librarian, 'Renee' (Caroline Bergmann), will get up the nerve - after four years - to ask 'Charlie' out for dinner.

After all, they dated in high school, before he ever met 'Suzanne'.

Very lovely!

As well as those romances, we have a young couple (played by Tanner Kaminsky and Kensie Glass) whose love story is just beginning, as well as an empty-nest couple (Ander Renalt and Dabney Anderson) who have drifted toward divorce after their daughter goes off to college.

All of these tales are accompanied by photographs displayed on two big-screen televisions, serving to dress the set, along with a central station that serves as the florist shop, the library, and the hardware store.

Why was all of that important?

As I said, this is the troupe's entry for the competition, and everything is timed.

They must go from bare stage, through the performance, to bare stage again, and this time it's within 55 minutes.

They completed it this Saturday afternoon, during their final performance of three on their home stage, in just over 52 minutes.

Bravo!!!

Afterward, several members of the cast had thanks and gifts to distribute, then their teacher, James Venhaus, had words for his three seniors.

From left to right, those seniors are Ander, Kensie, and Andrew.

Such bright futures they will have!

I'll look forward to seeing them again in the spring, in "Mamma Mia!"!!!

Here's wishing all broken legs for their competition in Macon!!!

 

changing up my friday night!

Usually, I have dinner with my brothers, right?

However, I know I'll be seeing them on Sunday at Robin's party.

That's why, when Carolyn asked me to do something with her, I agreed.

It helped that she wanted to see a movie that I've been looking forward to: "Your Mother Your Mother Your Mother".

She even knew some of the actors in it, but I did not.

What I knew was it looked at both Islam and Christianity, among other things, and there are so few movies that touch on those topics.

It started with Latif, a Muslim, performing his job as a hit man for another Muslim.

Then his wife dies and suddenly it's all up to him to tend to his three children.

The eldest is a daughter, the son is 10 years old, and the youngest is another daughter, but there's a catch.

The baby has been raised on breast milk, and now the mother is dead.

How to supply sustenance to the baby, who is allergic to formula?

Meanwhile, his boss is after him to clean up a mess the boss's porn-movie maker son has caused with a militaristic Christian group.

What are to be his priorities in this new paradigm as a single father?

Such an excellent movie about choices.

We had a conversation about it in the hall with others who'd been in the screening room, then talked about it more during dinner.

 

That's right: dinner & a movie, though not in that order!

I had been craving pasta e fagiole, so no other place would do than the Olive Garden!

Carolyn was just fine with that decision.

After all, she knew I'd be paying for hers, so where to dine was my choice.

The latter part of the month is always a bit tight for her on her railroad pension.

I enjoyed that soup so much that I had a second bowl of it, and finished it off, too!

That meant I had leftovers to take home.

Wonderful!!!

I knew that gluten-free rotini swimming in meat sauce would make a mighty fine meal later!

What a nice change of pace this has been, and how good to spend an evening with my friend!

I am so blessed to have been able to treat her for dinner.

I am so blessed to have such good women to call friends.

i thank You, God.

zoom, zoom, zoom, hither and yon

It's become a regular thing, it seems.

It reminds me of the pandemic days, when zooming was the safest way to bring groups of people together.

For me, the MOVE! nutrition program from the VA is the latest to join my slate of afternoon appointments via ether.

Ever since my nutritionist left for her dream job, the Savannah VA has been hard pressed to fill her place in my life.

Now, I have Fabiana Carvalho, of the Myrtle Beach VA, coming to me for an hour every Thursday for this 12-week program. 

The first meeting was October 8th, serving as a 1-hour intro to the program.

 

Last week, On October 15th, we met again from 3 PM to 4 PM.

This time, we covered two modules in the MOVE! workbook. 

One of the first things she asked us was "why is it important to weigh regularly".

I was the first one to pop up in the chat box with my reply! 

In fact, I make sure to throw in my two cents' worth at any zoom I attend.

For one thing, it lets the speaker know someone is listening.

As a teacher, I know how important that it.

For another thing, it serves to verify my attendance at the event.

That will be important to my PCP.

 

Yesterday, the class meet for the third time.

This module was all about making good choices when filling your plate.

Colorful, non-starchy vegetables on half the plate, lean protein on one-fourth, and whole grains on the other fourth.

None of that is news to me, but just try finding that in a restaurant!

At least when Ruby Tuesday was in town, the salad bar could complement that lack of vegetables.

I will say that the house salad at Texas Roadhouse is a good alternative, too, just so the dressing is kept to the side.

See, I know all this information... as I last went through the MOVE! program in 2021... but staying with it is the issue.

I will make a conscientious effort to try, though.

Most of those in the ZOOM group are on one of the GLP-1 weight loss drugs and taking this course is mandatory for them. 

 

That four-part AARP-GA zoom seminar on estate planning, held on Tuesday, isn't the only multipart series I had with AARP.

Last Friday, at noon, I began a new series with them on nutrition.

It's a four-week program from a group called Open Hand and that's Kristen Aveno, the instructor in the series, in the photo.

I've only signed up for the 2nd and 3rd zoomcasts (is that a word?), as those were the ones of interest.

This first one for me was "Reducing Inflammation With Nutrition", complete with a chef that made a series of smoothies, but also a Tomato and White Bean Salad that's very close to one I like to make.

I already knew about most of the information - use turmeric, ginger, omeg-3 fatty acids, fermented foods, probiotics - so it was a refresher.

One thing I hadn't known was to look for 'NSF' or 'USP' on the labels of any supplements to verify they had been tested.

Here's hoping the arthritis in my right hip will find relief when I add more omega-3 fatty acids, fiber, antioxidants, and probiotics to my diet!

 

The AARP zoom today was called "Maintain The Brain With Smart Nutrition".

Last week, Kristen Aveno of Open Hand had been joined by chef Martha.

Today, the chef was Carrie and she made Chicken and Quinoa Berry Bowl, combining blueberries with the other ingredients.

I would never have thought of adding those, but it looks fabulous!

The talk was mostly about the MIND diet, with emphasis on leafy greens, berries, non-starchy vegetables, whole grains, seafood, chicken, and nuts.

This blended in very well with the MOVE! talk yesterday!

 

The only ZOOM that was unlike the others was the American Legion meeting from Tuesday of this week.

It was a hastily-called session for the Two First Posts, with only five of us present for the entire 75-minute discussion.

So, what was the issue that warranted this gathering?

The new commander of American Legion Post 500, that's what, as he continues to cause trouble.

Right now, his key to the building doesn't work, as the locks have been changed while the new tenant's side door is being replaced.

Thank you, Eddie, for getting that done.

Whiskey Tango Foxtrot deserves the same protections from intruders as those granted to the dry cleaners and the church who are also tenants of Two First Posts.

On Tuesday, we'll convene again to take further action.

That will be in person, though, with a quorum present for a vote.

I look forward to that action putting a stop to the shenanigans.