Sunday, April 5, 2026

today, i got dressed

That most definitely counts as news.
For the last two days, I've been in my nightgown.
That would be all day, all afternoon, all evening, all night.
I wasn't going anywhere, so why get dressed and tempt myself to venture out?
Indeed. 
This morning, I was still in my nightgown as I watched the Easter service - well, the latter part of it - with the Asbury contingent viewing on fb.
I've been in bed every night by 11 PM, if not before. 
Last night, however, had brought a bout of insomnia that had me up every hour until I relented and stayed up.
I watched the Thursday reward movie from Comcast: "Meet The Millers".
I dimly recalled seeing it before, though I'd somehow forgotten about Jennifer Aniston's stripper routines.
By the time it was done, I was ready for sleep, as the time coincided with my regular bedtime, i.e., about 2:30 AM.
I woke up about 10:30 AM, but didn't leap out of bed.
After all, I'm not the Easter bunny.
Bah dumm dum.
Just a little - very little! - joke to show I'm still here. 
(smile!
I caught most of Rev. Billy's sermon, so that was good.
Then came the "Alleluia Chorus" at the end, with folks in the congregation being invited to come up on stage with the choir.
I really loved that!
I seemed to liven me up, too.
After putting away to breakfast remains (Chocolate Ensure and two fig cookies), and verifying that my bowels were working well, I got dressed.
I'm wearing my dark blue dress with daisies.
Technically, it's a nightgown with pockets, but it looks like a casual dress and I've worn it as such on several occasions.
I will say this: it feels good to be in clothes for a change.
That includes wearing a bra for the first time since Wednesday morning. 
(smile!
And now, I have a lovely bouquet of flowers from the Easter service!
Chuck Long came by to deliver them just a few minutes ago.
My thanks to Asbury Memorial Church for this gorgeous display!
Now, what shall I do with my day?
Do I dare to drive my car yet?
Hmm... no, I think not.
While it's true that this is the first day that my brain doesn't still reel from anesthesia, I prefer to wait until tomorrow.
Meanwhile, I have plenty of movies to watch on TV.
Let me go find which one is next...

Wednesday, April 1, 2026

right foot, left foot

It's 0555 in the morning and here I stand.

I'm in one of the pre-surgery prep rooms here at Memorial Hospital.

Allie left me here to put on the compression socks and slipper socks myself.

Of course, that means the left foot is clad and the right one... well, I've already let her know that I cannot contort to do that one, so she'll have to for me.

I don't think she really understands the ramifications of someone having an inguinal hernia.

At least I won't have it much longer.

Sunday, March 29, 2026

bday9 party for miyah!!!

Here she is, the littlest girl no longer, being regaled with song by the wait staff at La Parrilla of Pooler!!!
Who are all those people around her at the table?
Those would all be members of Anthony's family: his mom, a sister, three brothers, and their spouses, fiancees, and children.
Seriously, there must have been at least 20 of them there!
The first niece and her family all had to sit at another table.
From the wall, that's Leila, Uncle Michael, the birthday girl, her Grammy, and her Mama, my dear Christina.
On the other side of this table was Miyah's Aunt Chelsea (holding AnnaLeigh), Uncle Dillon, her sister Chloe, and her other cousin, Alyssa.
Off to the right of Chelsea was Pop-pop (i.e., Matt).
There was just no way to get him into the frame - I tried!
I actually sat on Matt's right, at the end of this table, across from where Anthony would have sat (but he didn't make it in time).
Here's the nine-year-old birthday girl opening the gift bag from me!
Unicorn-emblazoned blank book for poems and songs and drawings!
Plastic ruler with Medieval artwork including a beautiful Unicorn!
Even a Unicorn change purse!!!
She loves Unicorns!!!
Ah, yes, a girl after my own heart!!!
I'm so glad I ventured out to Pooler for this party!
If not, I would not have known the seemingly-endless construction on I-16 had, at last, come to a close.
There's even a dedicated lane for entry from I-516, instead of that horrid left-hand merge that's been there for years.
Plus, there are new, sweeping, exit lanes for I-95 in both directions, making the transition easy and safe.
I just may make more trips to Pooler now... during the day, that is.
Thanks for having this 3-hour party at 1:30 PM!
Daylight all the way there and back!
Safe travel conditions for all party goers!
(smile!)

Saturday, March 28, 2026

theatre: not just on the stage

Happy World Theatre Day!!!
Actually, that was yesterday, but I wasn't able to see a live performance until this evening, so I'm celebrating it over a 32-hour span.
(smile!)
I began at the cinema, of all places, with me unaware that I had done so until after the credits had rolled.
The movie was "Forbidden Fruits", seen at the AMC, with only one other person at that 1:35 PM matinee, but she seemed to be laughing in all the same places I did.
Very nice, as I know my sense of humor can be a bit different!
Anyway, after the movie, I spoke to the other viewer and found out why she was there at this "Valley Girls gone bad" horror-comedy.
She was best friends, since college days 16 years ago, with the playwright whose work was the basis of the movie... say what?!
Yep, that's right!
Lily Houghton's play, "Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die', was first performed in 2019.
Last year, the play was deemed worthy of life as a movie, with that script co-written by Lily Houghton and Meredith Alloway, following closely the narrative of the play, but with fruits, not flowers, and set in a mall, not a single store.  
How very cool that, at the end, one of the characters wore a cropped t-shirt with the play's name emblazoned upon it! 
Nice way to pay homage to the play!
(smile!)
That gave me the impetus to look at other movies for their theatre.
So, when I got home, I watched "Wonka" again!
Comcast gave me a $1 Movie Night reward on Thursday and that's the movie I chose!
So, when I say "again", I'm referring to that night, not to the time three years ago when I first saw it.
Heck, I've seen this musical so many times since then!!!
However, I was incorrect in thinking that it had ever been on the stage.
No, this was an original story, serving as the origin of the character portrayed by Gene Wilder in "Willy Wonka & The Chocolate Factory" in 1971.
That earlier movie was based on the book by Roald Dahl... but was never performed on stage, either. 
That's not to say that stage adaptations were never done... but that didn't transpire until this century. 
Now, there are children's musicals, an opera, and even a musical that's appeared on The Went End in London!
Maybe I'll get to see one of those someday - but certainly not within my stated 32-hour timeframe allocated for celebrating World Theatre Day.
Next!
(smile!)
Peacock to my rescue!
It offered "Les Miserables", the 2012 musical film with Russell Crowe and Hugh Jackman in the lead roles!
And what should I determine as I watched?
It's an opera!!!
How to tell the difference?
In an opera, every line, by every character, is sung, with no spoken parts.
Ta dah!!!
It's based on the 1980 'sung-through' stage musical, "Les Miserables", which is based on the 1862 book written by Victor Hugo.
Although the movie is technically not a filmed version of a live play, it does use the same musical score as the stage musical did.
The difference is the dramatic license taken with the setting of those songs in elaborate constructions that would be impossible for a staged show.
However, as the film follows the stage production and utilizes the same lyrics in the same songs, I'm regarding it as a legitimate creation to include in my celebration!
Yes, yes, I am!!!
(smile!)
That brings me to the only live performance in this grouping.
I had hoped to see the Savannah Children's Theatre's production of "Evita" yesterday, but the Friday Fiesta ran too long... so I went tonight!
I even bought my ticket last night, to make sure to have a seat.
See, this was held in their brand-new Black Box space at the Starcastle.
Most such spaces hold 50 to 100 seats, so I didn't want to miss the show!
Fortunately, this Black Box can seat about 250.
Surprisingly, this is actually an opera, though it's called a 'sung-through musical', which is a bit off as Hanna Richmond, who plays 'Eva Peron', clearly has several arias during the show!!!
She is on-stage almost nonstop, along with the narrator, 'Che', performed absolutely perfectly by Desmond Chaney.
Austin Bradley was there as 'Peron', and Trey Wilner as 'Magaldi', but they truly don't have many lines as those characters.
Austin does have an incredible courting dance with Hanna, who also dances with 'Magaldi' and 'Che'... but that dance with Austin is beautifully done!
Honestly, I was so impressed with the stage story that I wanted to know more about that Argentinian woman, the real Eva Peron.
What did I learn?
She moved to Buenos Aires as a 15-year-old determined to be famous, hence her affair with the entertainer, followed by future affairs with men who could advance her to where she wanted to be, a position of prominence.
She attained that by the age of 26 with Juan Peron, just a Colonel at the time, but encouraged him to further his career to become President of Argentina.
Then she died of cervical cancer in 1952, at 33 years old.
Incredible! 
So, was this play based on a book of her life?
Actually, it originated first as a concept album, of all things!
That was in 1976, and Andrew Lloyd Webber and Tim Rice used that tactic, already proven successful for their show, "Jesus Christ Superstar", six years earlier.
How amazing!!!
I've truly enjoyed looking at the history of these works.
I'll have to do a bit more of that in the future!
(smile!)

Friday, March 27, 2026

final friday fiesta of march

I was the last one to arrive, and, somehow, that put me at the other end of the table... I wonder who might have orchestrated that?

My guess is it was my sister-in-law, Laura!

See, this time, I had to sit down by Mark.

Get the picture?

I wanted to make sure she knew I was onto her conniving!

That's why I ordered the Tacos Pancho, the dish she has ordered many times over the last two years.

Grilled shrimp, cabbage, and a great sauce - very delicious!

However, it was also $5 per taco, so the joke was on me!!!

That's okay, I needed to talk to Mark anyway.

See, two weeks ago, he'd been absent because he was helping his boss replace stadium lighting for a high school football field in Bluffton.

That's what he told me last week, right?

So, tonight, I made sure to get the business card for Kintz Electric.

I got the info for Jimmy's boss, too, at OECI

I'm passing that along to AMC in the survey that's waiting at home for me.

Hopefully, those dark parking lots at the cinema will become a thing of the past and I'll feel safer about going to night-time A*List movies.

I bet those lights have been out for as long as I've had this hernia!!!

Speaking of which, I checked the weather for next week.

The WSAV weather song shows a dip for tomorrow, but that's followed by steady increases in the temperature.

By the time the hernia repair surgery date arrives on Wednesday, I'll be blessed with blue skies and warm days!

i thank You, God!

Now, I'm going to watch a movie reward from Comcast.

Yes, it's time for me to have a $1 Movie Night again!!!

I wonder what I'll find to catch my fancy?

(smile!

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

gravy, y'all

"What's that? You had gravy with dinner?"

Why, yes, I did! Actually, for the last three weeks in a row! All of that brought to mind a "Star Trek: TNG" meme that Sherry Giddens posted. The Captain asks, "Gravity is powerful, do you know what you get if you remove it?" His First Officer replies, "Weightlessness, sir." In all seriousness, he hears the response, "Gravy. Number One, you get gravy."

"Hahahaha! Poor Riker! Having to put up with those puns from Picard!"

Well, that was a riddle, not a pun. But it sure was funny! And the last three Wednesday night suppers at Asbury have all had gravy!

"Oh, nice! I do enjoy that meat-derived sauce! We don't get that very often, since you don't know how to make it."

Truth. Tonight, it was turkey gravy, served on the mashed potatoes. Last week, it was gravy with mushrooms for the chicken Marsala. And the week before was beef gravy from the pot roast, also served on mashed potatoes. I prefer in on rice, but I'll take it however I can get it!

"That looks really good! Where are your veggies on that plate?"

I don't like peas and carrots, so I abstained. I do have a nice little salad, though! And I have two desserts!!! That's blackberry cobbler and a slice of something that tasted like bread pudding, but looked like cake. Quite tasty!

"Was Kathy Mayin there for these WNS meals? I recall she went to the first one with you and seemed to enjoy herself."

Sadly, she has not been back. We make plans, but then she backs out. I even tried to get her to come for the Sisters In Faith luncheon last week, but that didn't happen, either. I'm not going to push her. I know she'll be back when she's ready, right? She's grown, she gets to make her own decisions.

"I understand. I hope she will soon decide to make more ventures out of her apartment. It'll be good for her mental health and her spirits."

Agreed! I know I look forward to these social gatherings. Meals are nicer with others to share the food and conversation. Okay, time for "Scrubs"! I really am enjoying this continuation of the original series. 

"You mean the reboot of the old show?"

No, it isn't like that. It's more like a reunion. It's nice to see them rekindling their old friendships. That's a realistic approach for people who have lost touch while life interfered. You know: jobs, kids, moving to new locations. I can relate to it. So, later, chica!

"Hasta la bye-bye!"

Tuesday, March 24, 2026

one foot for the driving

"That's correct, if you have an automatic transmission. The right foot handles both the gas pedal and the brake, as only one of those is ever in action at a time. If you're using your left foot for the brake, you're driving wrong."

I'm so glad you're aware of that! It's startling to me how often someone will have a foot going on both the gas and the brake simultaneously. Don't they know they're burning up their brakes, wasting gas, and straining their engine??

"For sure. Is that why you put that title? And what's with the photo? Wait a minute... your room heater and the fan are both plugged in to the power strip! Now, that's wasting energy!!!"

Ah. It's only wasting energy if I have both engaged at the same time. However, I do not. Only the heater is on. See it's little light?

"Yes, now that you mention it."

Well, I turned it on earlier to take the chill off the bedroom.

Now, I've turned on my heated mattress pad to do the same for the bed itself. Here's the funny thing: last night I had to use the fan to cool off the room!

"Holy shiite! Look at that thirty-degree dip in the weather song!!!"

Exactly. Monday's high was almost 90F. That's right: 90!!! The heat in the attic came down into the house and made it nice and toasty, so much so that I needed a fan to cool my room down enough to sleep. Then the high today, barely hit 60F.  All that lovely heat I'd let inside yesterday has dissipated and the temperature inside is back to about 67F. Hence, I've turned on the heater to warm my room back up to 70F, thrown the extra blanket on the bed, and turned on the mattress pad.

"Wow. I guess that's why you told Yvonne that the weather is going through puberty. She had said menopause, with hot flashes, but those cold dips don't fit that theory."

Exactly. Plus, as I told her, the changes are much more in line with a boy going through puberty, complete with sperm sprayed all around! She and Cathy thought that was hilarious! and just look at this latest weather song, would ya? We'll have almost 90F again on Friday, then it'll drop back into the forties overnight!!! Crazy kid needs to get a handle on those raging hormones!

"Hahahaha! Yeah, I wish you luck with that, dear. At least these spring bouts of fluctuating hormones doesn't last but a month or so. Real puberty goes on for much longer. Your nephew Michael is getting a taste of that with his girls. Alyssa has already started menstruating, hasn't she? And Hope probably is having boy issues with Sebi."

Yep! If they didn't have gray hairs before, they will now. I'm so fortunate to have missed out on raising teenagers. Thanks, Dr. Pacifico in Okinawa, for granting me that tubal ligation when no one else would. It probably helped that we had a rash of unplanned pregnancies in the barracks at the time. That prompted all of us having to undergo education classes about sexual health and birth control methods. That's when I started asking for that procedure, and, after nearly a year, he agreed. Right place, right time for me.

"Indeed, it was. If you hadn't been in the Navy, I doubt that would have ever come to pass."

Oh, I know it wouldn't have. The rule was that a woman had to have already had two babies before she could be considered, and that's if she was single. If she were married, then her husband had to consent to the surgery before she could have it. How antiquated that all sounds! But we're only talking about the early 1980's. That's only two generations ago.

"Do you know if that rule has changed?"

I have no idea, but I hope so. A woman should always be able to control what is done with her own body, and that includes her reproductive body parts.