Friday, August 14, 2026

hello, gorgeous!

"Hey, hey, girlie! You flashing back to that sign in Las Vegas?"

Oh, wow, I'd kinda sorta forgotten about that one. Good memories!!! No, I'm referring to the words spoken to me this morning as I was hobbling through the heat to enter the Savannah VA Center. I'd made it through the outer door and had taken a pause in the middle to cool off. Then this lovely man opened the door wide and said, "Hello, gorgeous!" Surprised, I smiled wide and thanked him, of course. Then he added, "Have an amazing day!" "You, too!"

"My, oh my! That was a nice surprise!"

It really was! After I checked in for the lab appointment, I sat and let that random act of kindness sink in... and almost started to cry. That's a real rarity, to have a stranger offer such words. When I was younger, I'd have sailors say such things, but that's been fifty years ago, or close to it.

"What's that meme you just flashed up? Something from fb?"

Yes, it's something that the ex's Andy posted. '8 Things You'll Probably Never Know' has a lot of truth to it, and that stranger's goodness made me remember it. That guy's kindness wasn't the only wonderful thing that happened at the VA Center, though. Kim, the nurse that saw me today, kidded around as she wrapped my right hand after the blood draw. "Just because you look like a boxer now, don't be doing what LL Cool J said." I laughed and sang, "Mama said knock you out!" Hahahaha! We both got a kick out of that, her for referencing the song and me for picking up on it. (smile!)

"Hahaha! That reminds me of the purple panther moment you had!"

Oh, yes, that was fun! A bright moment during that first year of the pandemic. Taking the time to cut up with the young clerk at the grocery store. I wonder if #5 might pertain to that time and place for that young man?

"Beats me, dear. He'd be 24 or 25 now, wouldn't he?"

Probably. I feel sure he was in high school 6 years ago. Maybe #5 actually refers to me talking about him? His name was Sam.

"Well, see there? You did do a #5! Let's go ahead and list them, for folks who don't want to zoom in on that picture."

1. Someone out there once fell for you... and never told you.

2. A stranger noticed you and smiled, you just didn't see it.

3. Someone still remembers something kind you did years ago.

4. You've been the reason someone didn't give up.

5. Your name has come up in conversation you'll never hear.

6. Someone defended you when you weren't in the room.

7. There's someone who checks your messages and smiles.

8. Your life inspires people who never say a word.

"There! That will make it easier for all to read and enjoy!"

Thanks, that was a good idea. Oh, and hears another kindness from Kim! She needed to have a urine sample from me, too. When I said I'd try, "but I don't know how much will make it into that little cup," she asked if I'd like a hat. Say what? Apparently, there's this wide-brimmed bowl that goes below the seat, so it catches the urine without a woman having to get pee all over her hand trying to find the stream. Hooray!!! I'm going to mention her name every time I need a urine test in the future!!!

"I'd say this is shaping up to be a rather amazing day..."

Yes, I do believe it is! i thank You, God!

Thursday, August 13, 2026

i would pay good money to hear her as the phantom...

Those are the exact words I spoke to Liz Lang after the cabaret tonight.
I was there at the Unitarian Universalist Church downtown, having my second stint as a volunteer usher for the Savannah VOICE Festival.
This had been a surfeit of sopranos!
Titled "Queens Of The Night: Sopranos On Stage", it featured three women who had all won the American Traditions Vocal Collection - Milnes American Opera Award.
Those would be Kyaunnee Richardson, Liz Lang, and Nia Drummond.
 
They had made a grand entrance, all brandishing swords and storming the stage, as "The Ride Of The Valkyries" swirled in the air - huzzah!!!
I had to smile, remembering the quest on TBBT to retrieve Sheldon's stolen battle ostrich from some guy named Todd Zarnecki.
(smile!
Once they attained the stage, though, their demeanor changed!
"Three Little Maids From School Are We" they sang, coyly peeking from behind swords that had become colorful parasols!!!
Hahahahaha!
There followed a string of songs, some solo, some as a trio.
My favorite from the youngest, Nia, was "Ride On, King Jesus" - I'd never heard it before and it was fully of energy and happiness!
My favorite from Kyaunnee was "Summertime", from the musical, "Porgy And Bess" - I do so love that song!!!
But my favorite from the entire hour-long concert was that done by Liz.
You could have heard a pin drop, as everyone in the sanctuary paused their rustling and shifting to listen.
It was "The Music Of The Night", with her as the Phantom of the Opera!!!
Wow!!!
The three women had talked onstage about the roles they had yet to play, the roles that were their dreams.
Nia had said Maria, from "West Side Story".
Kyaunnee wants to be Sweeney Todd, from that musical.
And Liz wants to be the Phantom.
Yes, please!!!
As I told several, there's no reason the ingenue couldn't be a man, which would certainly set her up in the eponymous lead. 
Yes, I would pay good money to be in the theatre for that...

Tuesday, August 11, 2026

party of 1 at 2FP

Even though it was announced last week that this week's meeting would be on Tuesday, not Wednesday, no one seemed to have listened except me and Brenda.
She had even updated the google calendar to reflect the change, but she never made it there, due to weather where she was.
As I told her, it wasn't even raining there at 5511 Montgomery Street, at the Two First Posts of Georgia building.
I should know.
I'd arrived just a few minutes before 6 PM, hoping that the American Legion space would be already open from the summer swelter.
Ah, silly me.
I sent out texts to make sure others were on the way.
Brenda Pough was the only one who responded.
So, I set about to wait them out.
That meant walking around and taking photos, naturally.
I am, after all, the Historian for Post 36 and I've been documenting the progress of work at this building for several years
The following are what I noted during the 45 minutes I was there.
 
First, the dumpsters have been delivered, so that's good.
Republic will be handling waste management, as they are the company of choice for JKLM, LLC, the canteen managers.
I thought there was to be one dumpster for recyclable materials, but maybe not?
These both seem to be for trash. 
Justin has been busy with this change order from a month or two ago.
He's poured the concrete pad behind the dumpsters, as well as the long concrete walkway that runs up to the back door of the canteen.
The rain almost every afternoon had slowed him down, but at least our few days of just sun have allowed the work.
Next up will be a gated fence to keep out anyone who might illegally use those dumpsters or the forthcoming grease trap!
That means yet another key on Eric Bolden's key ring, as Building Manager.  
So far, he has the keys to both the front and back doors of both 5509 and 5511, as well as to the offices of Post 36 and Post 500, the storage closet, the conference room, and the event ballroom.
That's 9 keys so far.
Glad that's not my responsibility!
I've done my duty, and then some, this evening.
At 6:48 PM, I sent out the following to the other TFP members.
"As no one else has yet arrived, I am taking my leave. 
Hoping to see all next Tuesday."
Anyone else hear those crickets?

Monday, August 10, 2026

what's the perfect amount of ice, ice, baby?

What else would be on my mind on such scorcher summer days?

Remember, Savannah has lots of humidity, so add 10 degrees to those highs.

I run that dining room air conditioner at night, which manages to get the living areas of the house down to about 77 F, which is fine by me.

That means those areas get to the mid-80's in the afternoons.

Again, that's fine by me, and keeps my electric bill below $100 each month.

But part of the reason it's fine by me is I drink a lot of iced fluids.

Ivan Shreve, my fellow member of the League of Savannah Bloggers, posted the above meme on fb to take a poll about that.

"What's the perfect amount of ice?"

In true form as an analytical chemist, I didn't give him just one number. 

"2 usually, sometimes 3, unless it's cold outside. Then it's 1."

He liked that response.

Why not 4 as one of my preferences?

That's too much ice, making it difficult to drink without getting liquids running down my chin or onto my clothing.

Speaking of "perfect", tonight at Music Bingo, Andrew, the new bartender, took my drink order at the table.

Marcia was already in the booth, and the others had not yet arrived.

Andrew asked what I wanted and I said "water", as that's my usual.

He asked, "With or without lemon?"

"Surprise me," I responded... and he did!

I was the only one at our table of 4 that had both lime and lemon!

Sandy and Elissa ordered their drinks from our waiter, and just got lemon.

(smile!

None of us won any of the games tonight, but we sure had fun!

"House Party Mix" and "Modern Country Mix #2" were both good music, but it was that first game, with the "Covers Mix", that had us all pleasantly surprised.

Fergie sang Heart's "Barracuda"?

The White Stripes covered "I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself"?

Diana Ross singing "Ain't No Mountain High Enough" was a cover?

Like I said, it was a fun evening with my friends!

Now, it's time for "The Quiz With Balls" and guess who they have tonight?

Star Wars Nerds versus Models - that should be good for a few laughs!

Friday, August 7, 2026

eye of the hurricane...

"He does look a bit like the center of all activity, and all he is doing is sitting on that comfy couch at the back of the Telfair Rotunda."
 
Exactly!!! I'm so glad you see that, too.
 
"Hey, the eye cannot help but be drawn to Sherrill Milnes. As well as being world-renowned for his opera prowess, he's a tall fellow, and holds himself with quite a regal manner."
 
I agree. I do hope some of the others with cameras caught that. Then again it was serendipity that I took the shot. He and I kept catching each other's eye, as we do, and I'd pointed the Alcatel lens at him a time or two. But someone would come up and ask me something and I'd get distracted. As for him, there was a steady current of people headed toward him for a few words, or away after they'd shared a moment. I finally just clicked the shutter!
  
"So, just why were you at this offering of the 14th Annual Savannah VOICE Festival? I know you don't have that kind of money at hand."
 
I was a volunteer usher!!! I dared myself to sign on for some shifts, after Torlef Borsting, the Executive Director, contacted me to see if I was available. I only signed up for this one this weekend, to see how it went, but I have a full slate at the end of next week.
 
"Whoa, girlie! Even with that hitch in your giddy-up still?"
 
In spite of that!!! I'm not sure that anyone much noticed my hobble, though if they did, they didn't say anything. I was so proud of myself for keeping that on the down low! I'd taken an acetaminophen around 3 pm, then another around 5:30 pm, an hour before showtime. That near double hit worked pretty well! Though it was starting to wear thin by show's end at 8:30 pm, making that trek back to my car a bit rough. But I persevered!!! I am so proud of myself!!!
 
"I'm proud of you, too, honey! I know it really hurt your psyche to not be a volunteer for the Savannah Music Festival this year."
 
Yes, but a good bit of by absence there was due to that inguinal hernia repair surgery and the recovery period after. I didn't even drive for a week! For this festival of opera, I was determined to try to be a volunteer again... and I have succeeded!
 
"That's great news! Even better that no one commented on your lameness. And just what was this show tonight?"
 
"A Night Of Rising Stars"!!! This was the first show of the festival, too! They've already had two of the "Masters In Voice" programs this week, with those during the day on Wednesday and Thursday. But Maria Zouves made a big deal of this being the inaugural event for SavVoice14! This was primarily a showcase of the new talent from this year's singers, but there were a few from last year sprinkled in. Like Juan Johnston-Chavez!!! Remember that sweet, and oh-so-helpful, baritone? He finished up the first half of tonight's program with "If Ever I Would Leave You"... and I could swear he was singing it straight to me! How about that? We even talked about the musical "Camelot" which was the source of the song, and it turns out neither of us have ever seen it! Maybe I need to arranged a movie date so we can remedy that. I wonder if comcast has the movie version of the musical?
 
"Oh, girl, you are too funny!"
 
Hey, I can be his dear Auntie while he is around here.Though I would imagine he has a few of those already. Get this: he remembered my name! Like, early on, well before the show began. It took me a minute to recognize him, but when I did, I totally did. You know?
 
"I do. Did you have any other moments with folks there?"
 
Well, sure! Lani Winskye, the VP of Operations, was super glad to see me volunteer again! She made sure Ashley Nunez, in charge of Patron Services, knew she could count on me, and put me to work at once stuffing programs. It wasn't even 5 PM yet! (smile!) But I think one of the favorite people I saw tonight has to be Jessica Ann Best. Remember her?
 
"Hey, that's her curly blonde mop in the center of that group shot, isn't it? I'm so thrilled to see her performing still! What was the song?"
 
"The Sound Of Music", of course!!! (smile!) They were finishing the rehearsal and I just couldn't stay downstairs any longer! So I was lipsyncing along with her, hands in motion, and she smiled at me the whole time - fabulous!!! And that's 22 other singers up there with her for the kind of ending that brought everyone to their feet at the end of the second half of the show. Talk about a showstopper!!! Wow!!!
 
"Well, I'm so glad this has been a good first venture back into the volunteer life!"
 
Me, too, g'friend, me, too. I have so missed this!!!

Thursday, August 6, 2026

stepping into the light, at last!

There's something to be said for coming out of a cinema at night and being able to easily see your car in the parking lot.
The AMC Classic 11 has lacked parking lot lights for... months?
I'm trying to recall if they had working lights last fall, but cannot.
It isn't as if I go to night movies any more, since Barbara's death, but I can say that I have actively avoided being there since the parking lot went dark.
Tonight was different.
I'd had a double header and invited Carolyn to join me for the second movie.
Afterward, we came out... and that photo shows what we saw.
Lights!!!
Brightening the night and our paths to our cars!!!
I guess I can stop complaining about the darkness in my survey responses.
Hallelujah!!!
So, just what had we ventured out to see this evening?
Well, my friend had joined me for "The Invite", the latest with Seth Rogen.
He isn't an actor either of us follow, but he has improved of late.
He plays the husband of Olivia Wilde's character, and they're parents of a now-school-aged daughter that we never see.
They live in the house his parents once owned, now split into a duplex, and on this night they're having the noisy neighbors from upstairs over for wine and cheese.
Edward Norton and Penelope Cruz are that pair, still very much in a honeymoon state in their relationship, hence the nightly noise.
(smile!)
It's very much a tale of the new folks trying to get the curmudgeonly folks to loosen up, with the staid couple only doing so after a joint and some tequila, finally reaching to point of being open to wife-swapping... though that activity doesn't go well.
Still it had some funny moments along the way.
Not as many as "One Night Only" did, however!
From the opening premise, of a government-sanctioned night for singles to have sex, to the scene at the Little Red Lighthouse, it was a delightful romp!
Add to the mix that she's a jingle singer, and that final scene is during the filming of one of those drug commercials where everyone sings and dances, and it was right up my alley for fun!
I can't say I'm familiar with Monica Barbaro, but I love the way she embraced her character and I'll be paying better attention to her after this.
(She was up for an Oscar for her portrayal as 'Joan Baez' in the Bob Dylan movie a couple of years ago, but her name didn't stick with me.)
Likewise, Callum Turner isn't a name that resonates with me, though I've enjoyed his characters in the various movies he's been in.
As for the other two movies this week, I've already spoken at length about both "Hadestown: The Musical" as well as "Spider-Man: Brand New Day", so that ends this week's shout-out about my AMC A*List dances!
Now, on to other things!

Wednesday, August 5, 2026

... other trey tries to take away

The newly-installed commander of Post 500 came to the Two First Posts meeting tonight with a posse in tow.
As well as Emmett from last week, he also had David, Solomon, and Ulysses (husband of Sabrina, who may have been there to support our side).
Yes, Trey Singleton wanted to present a front for his position.
This Two First Posts meeting was held to answer any questions that still lingered from last week's meeting, and so was open to any and all members of both Post 36 and Post 500.
It was important that all understood the landlord relationship that TFP held with respect to all the tenants in that building on Montgomery Street.
John Parker started the meeting by explaining what had happened 18 years ago, when Post 500 lost its charter due to lack of young membership, and how Post 500 had fought to regain its status as an American Legion entity.
He also talked about Post 36 having given up its charter several years ago, as it was about to be taken by the national group, again for lack of young membership.
Doug Andrews said he left Post 184 five years ago and worked with James Putney, the then-Commander of Post 500, to locate a space to purchase for their post's monthly meetings. 
Then, as per John Parker and Doug Andrews, each post put up $450,000 to purchase the building on Montgomery Street.
(I don't know if the Army Surplus store/pawnshop was still a tenant in the building, but I think it was gone; I just know that the drycleaners and the church were tenants at the time and still are.)
The almost million-dollar bank loan for the renovation of the space at 5509 and 5511 began about two years ago, with work still progressing at this time. 
John ended with explaining about the Two First Posts of Georgia LLC being the managing and governing party for the entire building, with a governing panel which had 3-year terms to lead the building toward a goal of serving active military at Hunter AAF, as well as veterans in the community.
(So, as with the last meeting, it was made clear this place has a hefty debt that needs to be paid, as well as current utility bills and such.)
Doug explained that the current President of TFP is Eddie Patterson, who will have that position for approximately another two years, at which time the new President of the LLC will be taken from Post 36, as the position switches hands at the end of each term.
Doug is currently the Vice-President of the LLC, and will hold that title for approximately another two years, at which time it will switch to a member from Post 500.
The two Finance Officers of TFP LLC were the two Treasurers from each Post at the time, meaning they are Joe Cetti and Sabrina Scale, each of which will hold those titles in the LLC for approximately another two years.
John added that the board is currently working on the Bylaws, Code of Conduct, and regulations for operation of the building; that will be forthcoming whenever those have been completed.
Doug added that the facility's focus is on serving active duty military and veterans, not civilian groups.
John remarked that there will be a sign-in book for guests who are not members of either Post 36 or Post 500.
Trey then began his questions, which really were thinly-cloaked demands.
He wanted 8 days (!!!) of each month to be set aside for the monthly meetings of Post 500, including the general meeting, the e-board, the SAL (Sons of American Legion), the Auxiliary, and one other, as well as 3 days for fundraising events.
Brenda explained to him that those five regular monthly meetings are already listed on the TFP google calendar.
John also explained that a screen of events would soon be posted, with street view, so all passersby and interested parties would know who had rented out 5511 Montgomery Street at any time. 
It was also reiterated at that time that all veteran groups meeting in the space needed to sign a Use of Facility Contract, as well as pay $250/quarter, to cover expenses of TFP.
Trey balked, expressing the amount as "$1000 per year" to make it sound like a weighty sum to suddenly spring on the Post's members.
(Note: they are currently paying $250/month at another facility!)
I spoke up with a countering tack, explaining that the amount was "less than $20 per week", and that it covered "all five regular monthly meetings" of Post 500.
(I think I stunned everyone with those numbers.)
John then proposed that a "ceiling date" be set by TFP, at which time neither Post 36 nor Post 500 would have to pay for its monthly meeting space.
Trey brought up that he wants keys for the four officers of Post 500, so they can access the office for Post 500.
John advised him that would be better after TFP has the 20-foot storage container installed behind the building, as both of the offices, as well as the conference room, are stuffed with items at this time.
Eric tried to give Trey a key to the Post 500 office, but Trey declined to accept, as there are currently no forms to serve as a paper trail for that transaction.
(I have made it clear to all that a locking door needs to be installed to protect 5509 from  unwarranted access by folks in 5511 when the restaurant is not open for business; all agreed that Justin is to return for that change order.
I believe it was decided that Eric would do that.)
Trey then brought up a veteran group, Beauties in Boots, that have been trying to access meeting space in the building, to no avail.
Brenda advised him that she has spoken to them and they have permission, they just need to sign a Use of Facility Contract, like everyone else.
There was then some general talk about how one gets elected to the TFP board, though it was repeated that will not be occurring for at least two years.
Then it was 8 PM and the visitors all left.
Whew.
We of TFP stayed about another 30 minutes, then called it a night.
Mostly, we agreed that Larry Jackson was to blame for stirring up this "ownership" business with Trey,
While helping sort out the business license application, he found that the deed for the building was in the names of both Post 36 and Post 500.
Larry interpreted that to mean that he could schedule whatever he wanted there, and so he did, and he was given special permission because he was helping get the liquor license and the business license, right?
But when that largesse dried up after the calendar was created and he couldn't cherry pick the dates he wanted for family graduations and birthdays, he may have felt a bit shut out... and that's when he apparently tossed the ball to Trey.
Geez.
Sabrina and Brenda are onto his game now.
Doug is to handle changing the deed over to Two First Posts LLC, which should bring an end to this thrusting for power and control.
I just hope Trey realizes how Larry used him.

one trey giveth...

I had been in quite a fit by the time I arrived at AMC.

I'd expected to miss the first twenty or thirty minutes of the movie, due to its clash with my appointment time, but I wasn't worried.

I had the prior experience with the clinic for the procedure, and I'd already seen "Hadestown: The Musical" four times, so I was prepared.

I was incorrect.

My experience at the Georgia Skin & Cancer Clinic had been a fiasco, causing me to arrive at the cinema an hour and a half past the movie start time.

Still, I'd reserved my ticket ahead of time, and, due to the 30 minutes of previews, I still would have about 90 minutes of the movie to watch.

Nope, Hailey sent me to the wrong screening room.

When I walked in, there was less than 30 minutes left in the story.

How did I know it was the wrong screening room?

Because I wasn't the only one who came for the 11:15 AM show, but was sent to the room with the 10:15 AM show.

When I asked one of the other viewers, he said he didn't know why the movie "started early", but guessed it might be because the air conditioning was out "in the other room".

That made no sense to me, so I went to the counter to speak with Trey.

It turns out he had added the earlier screening just that morning, so that's why there was a mix-up, but her told me he would make it right for me.

That he did, in a big way!

I had my very own private screening of "Hadestown", starting at 1:43 PM.

I sat through the whole thing, too, even through the end credits, even though I had seen that last twenty-five or so minutes just a few hours ago.

The music from this one has been with me for days, playing itself on my mental jukebox - the songs from the Three Fates ("Wind Comes Up", "A Gathering Storm", "Nothing Changes", "Now That The Chips Are Down", "A Word To The Wise") - songs between Orpheus and Eurydice ("Come Home With Me", "Wedding Song", "Wait For Me", "Doubt Comes In", "Promises") - the song between Hades and Persephone ("How Long") - the songs featuring Hades ("Hey Little Songbird", "Why We Build The Wall") - and others that have stayed with me.

Thanks, Trey, for the gift of seeing this once more, from the beginning...

hoping that this time the love story will come out differently...

knowing that it won't...

but singing the romantic tale anyway.

(smile!

paging doctor sidney smith, please

Dear Dr. Sydney P. Smith III,
You need to step in to your office from time to time.
Today, I went to the Georgia Skin & Cancer Clinic to have two more moles excised by Taylor Byrne, your clinician working there. 
This was my fourth visit, by the way, so I have some experience with her.
She also has some experience with me, as she is well aware now that patients on Eliquis need better cauterization to prevent bleeding.
The last time I was there had been July 1st.
That visit, like this one, had been to have two moles removed, as they were moderately displastic nevi on their way to ruin.
That visit had gone well, with me being seen at my appointment time.
The two moles were both on my back, near the spine, and the entire process had me out of there in about twenty minutes.
Not so this time.
 
I had arrived a bit early, hoping for another quick visit, and was the second client in the waiting room.
Within five minutes, I was ushered into one of the inner rooms to await Taylor Byrne.
The time was 11:22 AM.
I was left to my own entertainment....
which, in and of itself, is common...
but time ticked by 
with no one checking on me.
In fact, I took this photo of the Blue Angels
and sent it to my computer to make note.
The time was 11:39 AM.
It was then 9 minutes past my appointment.
I then wandered around in the small room,
looking at other framed photos,
wondering where Taylor Byrne might be,
wondering why she was not there with me
for my appointment. 
This photo of the acrobat was taken at 12:01 PM.
No one had yet reached out to me, even though I had opened the door and asked why I was not being seen on time.
Was it because I am a referral patient from the Savannah VA Center?
Was it because the VA Community Care system was paying for me to be there?
Does the clinic have a problem with treating veterans or military patients?
I have to wonder. 
The redheaded aide who marked this spot certainly seemed to be trying to raise a reaction from me as she dug around with the anesthesia needle.
That time was 12:04 PM, more than 30 minutes past my appointment time.
Taylor Byrne offered no explanation for her tardiness.
She did ask if I wanted to reschedule, even though I had already spent so much of my time for this one that she had botched.
I'm hoping that this time was well spent.
I'm not convinced that the correct mole on my leg was marked.
I guess I will see tomorrow when I remove the sloppy bandage that her assistant put over the cauterized wound.
Meanwhile, Dr. Smith, I expect better on any future visits.
I will certainly let the VA hospital in Charleston know how disrespected this US Navy veteran felt at this appointment.
Sincerely,
Faustina
 

Tuesday, August 4, 2026

bday80 and bday68 dinners with friends!

Bet that's a bit confusing, isn't it?
Let me straighten it out, shall I?

My dear friend Carolyn turned 80 years old last Friday, but was quite busy being regaled by others - hooray!
Yesterday was finally my turn to fete her!
Her choice was Texas Roadhouse, so she could have that country fried chicken in white gravy again.
I'm so glad to have been able to bring a smile to her face with that birthday dinner!
I chose the grilled salmon - always so delicious!
Then off we went for an evening movie! 
Wonder of wonders, neither of us had yet seen "Spider-Man: Brand New Day", which has finished a very successful opening weekend.
The Big-D screening was at 5 PM, which was perfect after our 3 PM slunch.
What an exciting film!
Seeing it in Big-D for the first time was definitely the right decision, as the webslinger was back and forth across that great expanse of silver screen again and again!
We both loved it, especially that "Big" moment between 'Peter' and 'Ned' at the film's end.  
Very touching, literally and figuratively!!!
Still, as entertaining as the movie was, and as much of blockbuster as it is, we both agreed that we felt a bit lost watching it. 
After all, it's been five years since the last movie in this series with Tom Holland, and 'Peter' had been an aggravating teenager then.
That would mean the now 30-year-old actor is portraying a 23-year-old character, albeit a 'Peter' who appears older as he has been bereft of his two best friends for those five years. 
I can attest that loss will certainly age a person.
In his case, it had been his decision to ask Dr. Strange to wipe out memory of him from the minds of 'MJ' and "Ned', so there's that.
Bear in mind that he was a teenaged boy making bad decisions.
Now, he's been living with the repercussions of that decision and it's starting to work on his lust for life.
So far, I get all of that.
But how does that tie in with 'Black Widow' and 'The Hulk'?
I very much feel a need to rewatch some of the earlier movies!
 
So what about that "bday68 dinner" stuff?
That's all about me!
The physicist has returned from his summer vacation in oHIo and this is our first get-together since April.
Want to have three guesses where we were?
You got it: Texas Roadhouse!
The manager even said she recognized us, which threw him for a loop until I explained about being there yesterday with Carolyn - hahaha!
I again had the salmon, but with fries instead of the baked sweet potato.
There was one more difference - this time, I was the one treated to the free birthday dinner!
Many thanks, my bfe!!!
So wonderful to catch up with him after so long, too.
I had suggested several movies, but he wasn't interested in any of them, not even the two with Olivia Wilde.
That was a surprise, but I think he's just in such a more relaxed state after almost two months with Jeannette.
I am so glad that he's happy and in love again!
Now, how to wrangle an invite to his condo near Bell's Landing so I can check out his new digs in the 'Vannah?
I'll have to suggest a pizza and movie night in the next few weeks.
(smile!)

Saturday, August 1, 2026

Mountainfilm for 5th summer!!!

I had thought it was going to be next weekend, so it kinda sorta snuck up on me this year.
In early June, I'd reserved five seats for my and Christina's family, as well as one for her boyfriend of the past year.
Remember, I did that last year, too, even though she and Anthony had only known each other a few months. 
Then, on Thursday, I saw the email reminding me... 
reading that the MountainFilm On Tour Savannah was in two days...
yikes!
I let my first niece know, but she wasn't able to go on short notice.
How about Michael and the twins?
Nope, they couldn't, neither.
That's okay, I was still going to partake of these movies not otherwise available to me at the local cinemas.
I've been enjoying these Telluride films for the 16 years they've been here!
The big program will be in January, of course, but I also like these short film festivals in the summer and for Veterans Day. 
There were five films from Telluride, plus a local one from a group of guys named Max at Savannah Arts Academy... seriously!
The young men screened "Clean Coast Club: Tides Of Change", a four-minute short that featured them cleaning up the marshes and beaches around, and between, Tybee and Savannah.
As we were all at Savannah Arts Academy for this film festival, they received a very nice round of applause!!!
The first film from Telluride was from 2025, a 34-minute documentary titled "What The River Knows", featuring songs from Katie Lee.
She fell in love with the Colorado River and its beaches in Glen Canyon, then became an environmental activist who called for the closing of the Glen Canyon Dam and the return of the area to its natural state.
That was followed by a shorter, 10-minute, piece, "The Opening Prayer (Ohen:ton Karihwatehkwen), with spoken Iroquois and English subtitles.
Although beautifully done, with many Native Americans taking part in each stanza of the prayer for the Creator, Earth, water, fruits, trees, medicine, and more, I couldn't help but remember that younger audience members would have felt a bit left out, with only lovely photos on the screen.
(I did find an English-spoken version on youtube, though.)
I was a little surprised that the third film hadn't been saved for the Veterans Day screenings, as its focus was a Coast Guard veteran.
Titled "First In, Last Out", the 25-minute documentary followed surf photographer Christa Funk, who was always in place in the water before the surfers arrived.
What incredible images she captured!!!
I do believe Miyah and Chloe would have loved that one!!
"About Damn Time: The Dory Women of Grand Canyon" was the fourth from the Telluride film festival.
It was 24 minutes of white water rafting in little boats called dories, which are regarded as "the ballerinas" of the rapids.
It was so much fun to watch those guides cum cooks power rowing down the Colorado River in those six-person crafts!
In fact, I'm glad I found the video on youtube to watch again!!!
Yes!
After that fourth film, there was a brief intermission to give away t-shirts and other souvenirs for those kids who could answer questions.
I took a bathroom break... and missed the last film!
"Strike - Mary Rand" was only 3 minutes long...
but I found it, too, on youtube!!!
Nice to cool off while watching all that shushing in snow!
Very nice way to be welcomed home by the arts from the cruise vacation!
(smile!)

best newsies yet!!!

"Beg pardon? I thought you weren't going to that because you've seen that musical so many times already."

Yeah, well, I changed my mind. So glad I did!!! This was another summer camp experience at Savannah Children's Theater, akin to last night's performance, but this time with 6th to 8th graders. That meant preteens, for the most part, would be starring in the show!

"So, a bunch of kids the ages of your twin great-nieces, right?"

Exactly! Alyssa and Leila are 11-year-olds, heading into 6th grade this week, and will be 12 years old in October. They would have been eligible to be in "Disney's Newsies, Jr." along with these other kids! Even at that age, they would still be several years older than the children the story is about. But there's something to be said for having children play children of the same age! I know I said that about the "Romeo & Juliet" by the Garrison Arts Academy students, but it still holds true.

"I totally understand. They add a dash of reality to the mix."

Exactly! They were portraying orphaned and destitute children trying to make enough money to eat by selling newspapers and shining shoes, being mindful to keep enough set aside to purchase the next day's supply of materials. Living hand to mouth, it was an incredible hardship when the cost of the 'papes' went up a dime. That was a lot of money in the 1890's! A reporter encouraged them to go on strike to bring attention to the problem, so they did! What an amazing thing that was: a bunch of pre-teens, scattered all over New York City, banding together to try to cause change for the better... wow! 

"Wow! And did you recognize any of the actors?"

Will Johnson was in it as 'Crutchie', best pal of 'Jack Kelly' (Asa Boothe), the ringleader who had a truant officer always on his track. Excellent! Grace Irwin was 'Katherine Plumber', would-be writer who broke their story to the "Sun". She was also the daughter of publishing magnate 'Joseph Pulitzer' (Cormac Buck), the greedy gus who had upped the price to newsboys, leading to the whole issue coming to a boil. The leader of the 'Bowery Babes' was Tenley Wright, as 'Medda Larkin', who could be counted on to give 'Jack' and the others a safe haven. Other names I recognized were Juliet and Hannah Roach, Zac Berwitz, Pearl Brown, and Lott Byrd.

"I'm sure you'll have the opportunity to know them all better during this next season's productions, either with SavChTh or the theatre groups of their schools or both!"

Most def something to look forward to! Okay, gotta go see some films!

Friday, July 31, 2026

yippee-ki-bang bang bang!!!

Yeehaw!!!
What better way to end the month than a Western musical?
Especially one with lots of shoot-em-up action!!!
I won't spoil the fun by naming names, but the body count adds up, with two dead in Act 1 and another in Act 2.
Plus there are a few stray shots along the way!
 
Thankfully, there's a Columbo-style detective named 'Frank Cioffi' - performed fabulously by Carson Brown - who's on his best game during these two nights with the actors of "Robbin' Hood", a little musical with Broadway dreams.
Scored by 'Georgia' (Megan Borges) and 'Aaron' (Naomi Antoine), once-wed but no longer, the show gets panned by local critic 'Daryl Grady' (Ben Tatom) of the Boston Globe, dashing their hopes of finally making it to the bight lights of New York City.  
Did I say panned?
He hated all of it except one part: that of the lead's understudy, 'Niki' (Genevieve Perry), who he spurned when she thanked him for that favorable review.
The cop, however, really took a shine to her and they have two wonderful numbers, the real-time "Coffee Shop Nights", and the fantasy dance scene, "A Tough Act To Follow" - loved those!
Oh, I just realized I never said this musical's name!
That would be "Curtains: School Edition", a modern musical that first graced the boards of Broadway in 2007.
And guess who originated the role of the cop?
None other than David Hyde Pierce!!!
Oh, yes, that's right: the little brother of TV's 'Frasier Crane'. 
Honestly, I think Carson Brown did a superb job as the Boston cop!
Kudos to all for nailing this show in a scant two weeks of rehearsals!!!
I'll be looking forward to seeing these 9th to 12th graders in future productions at the Savannah Children's Theatre this coming season!!! 
Special kudos to Carmen Titus, Katie Grace Lanier, Reagan Barnard, Ella Nixon, and B Cela.
I know I've seen y'all before and so looking forward to more!

Thursday, July 30, 2026

greek gods, mere mortals...

... the thing is this: love is love.
On this Arthouse Theater Day, I chose the one film that best encompasses that duality of both the stage and the silver screen.
I said two days ago that I'd already been three times for "the sad song, the old song, the love song" of "Hadestown: The Musical".
I also said then that I might got for a fourth viewing...
but I had not decided for sure.
I have Cinematique of Daytona Beach to thank.
The email this morning from this favorite place from my not-so-distant past reminded me of the importance of this date as Arthouse Theater Day.
 
How could I not venture into the crazy heat for such an important day?
How could I not venture off to "Hadestown" when the weather feels like I'm already there?
All week, the highs have been in the 90's, plus a double-digit heat index. 
Not ever on the cruise was it this hot and humid!
At least the storm forecast yesterday by the weather song never came.
That's made today slightly more tolerable, without the sauna effect.
In other words, it was perfect for sitting in a very cool cinema...
once more enjoying "a love song, an old song, a sad song"...
singing along, dancing in my seat, crying in all the right places.
Let me leave this post with words that are not mine.
This is what Orpheus said early on in his toast.
"Here's to the world we dream about...
and here's to the world we live in now."
Amen, and amen.

Wednesday, July 29, 2026

queen of hearts at TFP

Hunter Griffin is a very patient man.
He's the area sales rep for Youngco Enterprises, the company owned by Olin Young.
He was invited to be at the Two First Posts meeting tonight to discuss use of his games as fundraisers for the American Legion business.
He arrived at 6 PM with all his materials, as requested...
then was relegated to the small game room almost 90 minutes while we carried on our business meeting.
That's mostly because we had two special visitors from Post 500: their new Company Commander (Trey Singleton) and Vice CC (Emmett Prescott).
That's Trey at the end of the table, trying to stake his claim. 
They two were inducted Monday night at the special meeting of Post 500 and lost no time trying to gain a foothold in Two First Posts of Georgia.
Their bid for that stake in the LLC was unsuccessful.
I'm glad we had a good turnout for tonight's meeting.
I'd had a call earlier from Doug, during my lunch with my first niece.
I had another call a little later, from Brenda, wanting to make sure I knew Trey was stirring up trouble, wanting to make sure I would be there.
So I was, as were both of them, plus Joe Cetti, Billy Cope, John Parker, Sabrina Scale, Eric Bolden, and Eddie Patterson (albeit briefly).
Kat was also there, mostly to talk about the grease trap inspection (earlier today), the 8 cubic yards dumpster cost ($328/month), pest control cost ($150/month for 5509 and 5511), and the need for the DRAM rider on both the WTF liability as well as the TFP liability.
Doug confirmed that he has filled out the 14-page application to have the DRAM rider added to the Hartford policy for TFP, as well as having spoken to the insurance rep about getting that done.
Kat reminded all that rider is needed as one of the stipulations for TFP's liquor license request to be on the City Council's docket for August 27th.
Billy spoke of the outstanding bill he has for reimbursement from TFP for the TV cart, wire, and other supplies used for setting up the internet and TVs.
Billy also talked about the 3-year contract cost for two phones to be installed by RING Central at TFP, one for scheduling events there and the other for WTF; his contact is Paul Lambert at Celestial Business Solutions.
Billy said he has two more security cameras to install (at grease trap area and in the bar at WTF), with all billing for RING monitoring and security camera footage stored in the 'cloud' to be set up with TFP.
Doug said all paperwork is to be submitted to Brenda to go into Two First Posts for official purposes, including an inventory of all materials and equipment currently at the 5509 and 5511 Montgomery Street addresses.
Brenda stated that facility use contracts must be filled out for any groups wanting space in 5511 for meetings or events.
Brenda reminded all that military and veteran groups will pay $250/quarter to regularly meet once monthly at TFP.
Brenda said that schedule will be posted on a TV facing outside so all will know who is to be in 5511 at any given time.
John told us that several groups - Catholic War Veterans, the Marine Corp League, the Navy League - have already signed their quarterly contracts and paid.
Kat reminded us that TFP is to bill WTF for their portions of utility bills, rent, and other items as agreed in their lease.
Eric requested that a 10-day notice be required for scheduling of an event, to allow time for him to get the space ready; all agreed.
Get the gist?
We wanted all parties present to realize that the Two First Posts building had bills and obligations, and was not by any means debt-free, still having a sizable mortgage as well as utility bills.
That emphasis was not lost on our two visitors from Post 500.
Trey requested that he receive a key to the Post 500 office, as well as a key to the exterior door of 5511; John agreed that he should have such.
What that means is another locking door will need to be erected between 5509 and 5511, as no one but the tenants of Whiskey Tango Foxtrot need access to 5509.
Sounds like yet another change order for Justin and Wells Construction.
Trey also wanted to discuss having a veteran organization paint a mural on the building's wall, though it was not clear to me if he meant the exterior wall or an interior wall of 5511.
In either case, the matter was tabled until next Wednesday's meeting.
The visitors left and we adjourned to the game room, to the oh-so-patient gaming rep who had been waiting.
Did I say gaming?
I did, as in not lottery.
Queen of Hearts consists of a board with pull tabs, with money-winning 'cards' beneath several of the tabs, and a cost to TFP of $110 per board. Players purchase raffle tickets (a roll of those costs $6) for the opportunity to pull a tab, with the raffle drawings occurring at some set frequency. The game continues until the Queen of Hearts is revealed.
Two First Posts is responsible for paying for all wins, but TFP keeps all proceeds from selling the raffle tickets, in hopes of raising money.
My only problem is that it's all cash, so security will be needed, as well as someone to deposit said funds into the TFP bank account.
The other game that was discussed was bingo, though that has a larger initial outlay of funds and would require hosting a game night that did not interfere with already scheduled meetings or events at 5511.
I think I will suggest either Queen of Hearts or Bingo be a once-monthly event, preferably during the week.
My question would be: will TFP need to pay the $250 security/cleanup fee?
Good question!

meals and more with my girls!!!

Monday, it was time for Music Bingo again!

This was the first time any of us had been since the debacle a month ago.

"Us" would be me, Sandy, Marcia, and Elissa.

Hey, we've been busy, vibrant, women, a'ight, with family from out of town, cruises, and what-not going on!

I remembered to bring my free appetizer reward that I won about six weeks ago, too.

Fortunately, Midtown Sports Grill has changed their menu yet again.

Potato Skins is a new entry, loaded with bacon and cheddar, and that made for a mighty fine "welcome back" dinner with my friends!

And just look at that first bingo game of the evening!!!

That "Dance Party Mix" yielded me the first "Bingo!" of the bar!

Russ was even surprised that I'd won without using the 'Free Space' - I'd managed to do it with five actual songs that had been played, straight down the "I" column!!!

Andrew, the new bartender, was glad to bring me a free lemonade as my "free drink" reward for the game!

How wonderful to have shared that those three hours with friends!

(smile!)

Then, today, my first niece came to share a favorite movie with me!

This was the last week of the NCG Summer Camp Film Festival and they've been screening "The Wild Robot" since Sunday.

We love that movie about parenting and kindness!!!

Want to know how much?

She stayed awake through the entire movie!!!

That's saying a lot, as she has sleep apnea and tends to take a nap if she sits in one place too long.

That wasn't the case two weeks ago when she joined me for "Sing", but that was okay... it let me munch some of her popcorn!

That time, she was early and bought our tickets and kids' packs; this time, she was running on her standard time, so I bought the tickets and snacks.

(smile!)

After, we popped over to the Chick-Fil-A on Victory for our luncheon.

So glad the lunch crowd had mostly passed by then!

She grabbed the last table and we had a leisurely two hours together...

just us, no children, no boyfriend...

letting us truly talk about issues with that latter item.

Here's hoping for the best resolution for that problem.

Oh, plus a really bright spot!

We had been talking about friends from the past and she mentioned one of her middle-school buddies and spoke of them spending nights together.

"So, you're friends still, on fb?"

No, they weren't... but she quickly found her on that social media... and they are now reunited again!

Maybe I should do a few searches of lost friends, too.

(smile!)

Tuesday, July 28, 2026

thrice to hades... and i don't mean the summer heat

I speak of the romantic Greek tragedy, the musical I so loved last year when the good folks at Savannah Children's Theatre brought it for me, courtesy of the JEA providing a space after the debacle of the snow-laden roof trashing their previous location.
This time, it was courtesy of my A*List and AMC 11, bringing it to me at no extra charge, to welcome me home again from vacation.
Hallelujah!!!
This performance was recorded last year at the Lyric Theatre in London's West End theater district.
Amazingly, its five leads are the ones who originated the roles back in 2019 when the play first opened on Broadway!!!
"Hadestown" was nominated for 14 awards that year and won the Tony in eight of those fields - wow! 
'Hermes', the conductor of the train and the man in the spiffy gray suit at the bottom of the photo, was performed by Andre De Shields, now 80 years old.
He won the Tony for Best Performance By An Actor In A Featured Role In A Musical in 2019. 
The god to his left, 'Hades', was performed by Patrick Page, who was also nominated for that category, but lost out to his stage-mate. 
What an amazing low bass voice he has... especially considering that he's now 64 years old, the age my brother Ronnie would be.
The woman across from him in the photo, in the green dress, is Amber Gray, reprising her Tony-nominated role as 'Persephone' in this production at the Lyric.
(My guess is she's in her mid-to-late 40's, though her bio doesn't say.)
The couple at the top of the poster are 'Orpheus' and 'Eurydice', of course, the other love story in this epic musical.
They're played by Reeve Carney and Eva Noblezada, respectively, who are now 43 years old and 30 years old, respectively.
Although they didn't get nominated for any Tonys back in 2019, they are just perfect as the lovers who miss out on their happy ending.
I have cried every time I've seen "Hadestown: The Musical" this week.
 
That's really saying something about its impact, right?
I've seen it three times so far, and cried at the ending each time.
Actually, I've cried three times during the musical, with all three near the end.
The first time is when 'Orpheus' reminds 'Hades' and 'Persephone' of how their love story had begun and lets them know they are still very much in love.
The second time I cry is when 'Orpheus' returns topside but 'Eurydice' is not yet there, so he turns around to look for her...
and there she is...
but she is banished back to Hell because he doubted and turned.
Just heartbreaking!
The third time is at the very end, when 'Persephone' is making a toast to all the 'flowers that bloom in snow'...
and I even raised my cup tonight and drank.
Will I see it again on Thursday?
Tomorrow, my first niece will be here during the early afternoon, then I have a Two First Posts meeting that evening.
Thursday, at 4 PM, will be the last screening.
Maybe I can be there.
I'm so glad to have had this treat in town for my return from vacation.
i thank You, God.