Monday, June 30, 2025

see you in september, see you when the summer's through

The song just flew onto the turntable on my mental jukebox as soon as those first four words were in the air!
I even sang the words back to the clerk, but she was too young to know them.
Not so for me!
I've known of that tune since I was a little girl.
I can't say that I know "See You In September" by the original group that did it in 1959, but my 8-year-old self definitely was familiar with the 1966 hit by The Happenings.
Mama and Daddy liked to sing along with the radio, and so do I. 
(smile!
I was at Howard Family Dental Midtown when this flash back in time occurred.
The time for my teeth to be cleaned was actually in December, but it was too cold outside so I had to reschedule and today was the earliest they could do.
I've been fairly lax about flossing, and the dental hygienist took me to task about it.
Kelly also got onto me about my faulty brushing technique.
Apparently, the larger head on my new toothbrush isn't letting me clean well enough in the front and center of my mouth.
In other words, my gums were tender and bloody this time around.
Ouch.
Today's bite wing X-rays revealed another issue of the faulty brushing: two new cavities.
They were on my right canine and the tooth to its right, on the posterior (or inner) side of my mouth.
(Those are the two teeth near the top of this dental mold from the past.
That blue paint marks the upper molar that got a crown many years ago.
It fell out around the time of the pandemic and I tried to do the right thing about it - I returned to Howard Midtown Family Dental.
Dr. Julie Howard had last crowned that tooth, so I wanted her to put the cap back on.
That cost me $100... and stayed on about two months.
I never did get it replaced and plan to sell that gold crown eventually.)  
Dr. Emily Husted-Saffer was not happy to see those new cavities, but at least she didn't chide me about them.
Speaking of her, I was on the phone for an hour with UHC Medicare on Tuesday.
I'd checked online to make sure she was in-network... and found her name missing, though everyone else at that clinic was listed.
As it turns out, it was her married name change that gummed up the works.
(I had to throw in that little joke! So punny!!!)
(smile!
The song came up because September is the soonest they can schedule the two fillings.
That song reassured me that it was as it needed to be.
Right place, right time...
leaving me and the clerk with smiles on our faces!
How many people can say that about a trip to the dentist?
(smile!)

Sunday, June 29, 2025

pun day is the best day!

I think 
I figured out 
why our generation is  
common sense smart.
We had Lawn Darts
and Clacker Balls
to take out the stupid ones.
 
Thanks, my childhood friend, Faye Hill Kameron!
 
 
When you live alone you can't blame anyone else for hiding your things.
 
Thanks, Dawn's friend, Lisa Triplett Brown! 
 
Why didn't you look for me? 
Don't you carrot all?
 
Oh, I knew you'd turnip sooner or later.
 
Thanks, Ronnie's friend, Donna Faye Johnson!
No matter how big and bad you are,
when a two year old
hands you a toy phone,
you answer it.
 
Thanks, longtime church friend, Ray Ellis!

A priest, a reverend, and a rabbit walk into a clinic to donate blood.
 
The rabbit turns to the nurse and says, "I think I'm a Type-O."
 
Thanks, my new church friend, Sherry Giddens!

Stupid Microwave.
I pressed 
"Pizza" 
and it still came out a potato.
 
Thanks, longtime high school friend, Jo Coleman-Williams!

The man who invented the Ferris Wheel never met the man who invented the merry-go-round.
They traveled in different circles.
 
Thanks, my Armstrong college friend, Eric Mitchell!

Do you ever sing in the car? 
 
Yes, but only when I'm going in reverse.
 
Why's that?
 
Because I'm a backup singer.
 
Thanks, my Navy friend, Bob Bueling!
 

Saturday, June 28, 2025

i'm just here to water his succulents

Sounds like dirty talk, but it isn't.

That's yet another instance of 'Charlie Cale' (this generation's 'Columbo') speaking a level above what is needed for the scene.

The building supervisor - bringing David Alan Grier to another episode - has asked her what she is doing there at this ritzy apartment.

That's because she always dresses like she's working on a farm, right, and it's near the end of the day so she's even scruffier.

Anyway, he asks why she's there and she utters that line.

Priceless!

That's not really why I'm here right now.

I'm wanting to brag about my grocery shopping experience last night.

I saved almost FIFTY PERCENT on my bill!!!

The grand total was $95.74, actually.

However, by shopping the sales, the total that was due was only $64.68.

My savings were $31.06, making the savings almost 50% of what I had to pay.

Not buying that newfangled math, eh?

Fine.

I still saved more than 32% on the grand total and, considering that I treated myself to sushi, that's still a huge bargain.

Plus, as I was putting the cart away afterward, a copper gleam fell into my path!

It was a 2002 penny.

Right place, right time.

(smile!)


Speaking of, it's time for me to get outside before it hits 80 F for real.

I'm hitting the -mostly- shady part of the front yard.

"For real" did I say?

Yes.

That's because the thermometer reads 77 F now, but there's a 6-degree heat index that has to be added in.

I'm planning to use the shade to my advantage while it lasts... or until the Ryobi battery calls a halt.

Later!

Friday, June 27, 2025

bday67 at jepson, jason's, and dance!

Today has all been a wonderful gift from the Universe to me!
What do I mean by that?
Everything I did today was absolutely free -
and everything was exactly what I wanted to do!
It all began with the Lunch & Learn at the Jepson Center this morning.
I found my favorite parking spot - that coin meter by the SCAD gym on Barnard - and had enough change to get 2 1/2 hours for my $2.50.
A street worker asked me how to get to Broughton... so I enlightened him with my little acronym "AH GLOBB", my mnemonic based on old scifi movies.
AH GLOBB stands for: Anderson, Henry, Gaston, Liberty, Oglethorpe, Broughton, Bay.
Those are the cross streets that have traffic lights on Drayton as one proceeds from south to north downtown on that one-way street.
Ah, Globb!!!
The guy really got a kick out of that!
Right place, Right time!
On I went into the Jepson, having deliberately arrived a half-hour early to take in the sights.
I'd not yet visited "The Moss Mystique: Southern Women And Newcomb Pottery" and thought I should at least hit a few of the items before the lecture.
I'm glad I did!
One of the other women on this tour came over afterward to tell me how impressed she was with what I knew!
See, this particular piece had caught my eye at once, and its title confirmed what I already knew it to be: "Plate with spiderwort flowers".
Alma Simmons must have cultivated them in her yard back in 1907 for her to have so fondly painted their image onto this art!  
After all, that's what the genteel ladies did at this Louisiana institute: they "decorated" the pottery and earthenware crafted by men.
This particular plate, as well as many other pieces in the exhibit here, was fashioned by Joseph Fortune Meyer.
However, the women were the ones who earned income from the sales of this art, and they chose flowers from their homes in the southeast as inspiration: spiderwort, camellias, azaleas, hydrangea, day lilies.
 
Mama would have loved this!
I hadn't likened my little Christmas angel and Mama's other pieces sent to me in 1981 to these works until I saw this display.
It showed the clay all the way from greenware, through the first firing in the kiln, then through a second process, to the final firing of the painted work.
I remembered Mama talking about 'greenware' and how fragile it was.
Maybe now is the time to take Cameron's class in ceramics. 
Right place, right time.
This truly has been a perfect gift for my bday67.
I had missed my annual visit to the museums for my birthday this year, but for good reason.
Then, I meant to peruse the Jepson more a few weeks ago, while I was there for the outdoor exhibit, but somehow that didn't happen.
Hence, the reason I had allotted so much time for today's trip here.
However, this luncheon lecture went on for well over an hour!
That's thanks in large part to the engaging guest speaker, Joanna Angel, the tall blonde on the right, against the wall, with Erin Dunn of the Jepson helping to field questions and spark discussions. 
By the way, that's Erin with her back against the case that holds the "Plate with spiderwort flowers".
Perfect, right?
We had begun the tour in the other half of this major exhibit, eventually making it into this area, which is where I began today.
(smile!)
 
Afterward I did some preliminary exploring of the changes in the Children's Art Museum section.
That entryway has been refashioned as a yellow submarine and features the crayon-and-pencil seafaring art of William O. Golding!
I'll have another "Lunch & Learn" next month to give me the details on that.
By then it was time to rescue my car.
I made it back with ten minutes to spare!
Time to get slunch and I knew exactly where to go: Jason's Deli!
They were still holding a dessert for my birthday but I knew not what.
I settled on a slice of blueberry cake, a special that they had to enter as "strawberry" cake for me to get it free.
I cared not what they called it as long as it was free!
Then I did what I learned from Barbara about the value of the Salad Bar To-Go, making myself two delicious servings, with broccoli salad for lunch and the spicy corn-and-bean salad for dinner.
Just perfect for this Friday night!
 
Before I knew it, it was time to bop down toward Windsor Forest.
One Spirit Dance Academy had a special performance and, wonder of wonders, it was free!
Silly me, I had missed on the poster that "A Twenty-Year Journey" was the Summer Camp show!
Held in the gym of Windsor Forest Church, the parking lot was packed and so was the auditorium.
(I'm wearing my sleeveless, 'spring flowers', dress, and was in the back row, seated between the man in the red shirt and the man in the white shirt.
That photo was put on fb by one of the photographers at the event.) 
I absolutely loved the show!
Combining gospel songs and dance stories of the troupe through the last two decades, I felt so blessed to be there.
Right place, right time.
The 2002 penny I found at the Publix after the show confirmed it for me.
i thank You, God!

Wednesday, June 25, 2025

summer kids at the SKFF2025!

 
I say that Peyton and Ivan are "summer kids", but that isn't for sure.
They are Tony and Laura's grandkids from her eldest son, Josh.
Ivan is 13, due to be 14 in October, and he's a very well-mannered kid.
His sister, Peyton, is like the twins, in that she is 11 going on 21.
She's never had a phone before and has zero phone etiquette, prompting me to take both of their phones during the movie. 
Their status is up in the air as to whether they are in town just until school starts back up in August or if they'll be returning to Missouri before that.
 
All I know for sure is they were here with me for this third film in the NCG Summer Camp SKFF2025!
"Madagascar" was our treat today and we all sat in the front row, of course!
I've been giving that tendency of mine some thought and I believe I have reasoned out why I like sitting in the front.
I thank Keith Burnett for that.
He's the one who had me sit in the front for "Star Wars", back when I was 19, and I developed a habit of doing so.
No heads in the way and no distracting phone lights, either!
(smile!)
Later, I'll be watching the advance screening of "F1 The Movie" with Carolyn.
That will be in the Big-D screening room at AMC.
She and I won't be sitting together, though.
She likes to sit halfway up in the upper center section.
There's a reason why she does that: so she can watch the reactions of the other people all around her.
She's definitely a people-watcher at the cinema.
Not me.
I want to feel like I'm part of the movie, and I can't do that if I'm distracted by the presence of others.
Different strokes for different folks!
(smile!

Tuesday, June 24, 2025

another summer's eve at skidaway!

 
"You were at Skidaway Institute of Oceanography again? Most excellent for a Tina Tuesday! What was the topic this time?"
This was a history lesson, given by Dr. Herb Windom, the first person hired for the fledging site back in 1967. I think my favorite point in the talk was the one with the photo of the North Atlantic Bight, color-coded for water temperature. That made for a very nice tie-in to the OHM talk a few months ago. I think I impressed him that I knew about the five rivers feeding into that site. (smile!) Right place, right time for me!
 
"Very cool! Did you say 1967? That means Skidaway Institute is the same age as Dood!"
 
That's true! Jackson, the young man in charge of this public outreach activity, had sent the email invite to me twice, so I knew I had to be there. Then, once the talk started, I understood why. I know what it's like to be the first one hired at a site, the lack of organization and the need for changes almost daily. That's how it was when I was stationed at Galeta Island in Panama, when I was the first woman ever to be there. That meant there was only the one bathroom in the building. We had to put a sign on the door that let folks know when there was a woman aboard!
 
"I remember those days! Wow, that was so long ago, g'friend."
 
Yes, I got to Panama in April of 1978. So very long ago!
 
"Herb didn't run into any issues like that, though. Right?"
 
Correct. Only men were out there at SkIO then, but the buildings were prefab and the boat for research held only three or four people. It took a while to get funding so they could get a bigger boat - marine research joke alert! - but the one they now have lets six or seven researchers and equipment go out on the ocean, with a full crew, too. Overall, "The History And Early Days Of Skidaway Institute" was a lovely trip down the memory lane of the retired professor. He kept it light and casual, much like my lectures were when I was teaching. I highly recommend viewing his talk!
 
"Thanks, I'll do that sometime, but not right now. Bounce had "The Long Kiss Goodnight" on earlier and I recorded it. I love that movie with Geena Davis and Samuel L. Jackson! What an excellent flick!"
 
Most def it is! You go ahead and enjoy that. It'll be nice to be able to fast-forward through all the 'mercials!!! I'll catch you on the flip side!

brother's bounty from the boil!

On Sunday, Smitty cooked a low country boil at his house.
I found out about it this afternoon when he called me.
"Was I going to be home?"
He had a gift for me, but it needed to be refrigerated.
Yes, I told him, I'm here.
 
This is just part 
of the largess 
he brought me!
Boiled red potatoes...
links of spicy sausage...
and a plateful 
of lunch 
it was!
But that wasn't even the half of it!
He'd apparently fixed up a huge pot of low country boil and Mary was ready for it to be out of her fridge.
Hooray for her!
Hooray for him!
Hooray for me!!!
Lots of lovely shrimp, even more sausage, and two pieces of corn on the cob to boot!
All of that generosity encouraged me to pass it forward.
Perfect for Tina Tuesday! 
(smile!)

Sunday, June 22, 2025

do you have a reservation, part four

For two Saturdays in a row, I've been part of a group heading out to dine.
In both cases, one member of the party made a reservation to hold a table for us.
That's not something I'm accustomed to here in Savannah.
That's because these weren't upper-scale dining establishments, like Sapphire Grill or Elizabeth's on 37th.
For those two, a reservation is in order for two reasons: 1) a meal will run about $100 per person, and 2) they have very limited seating.
Neither of those were on our schedule either night.

Last night's venture out was to Oak 36 with mi amiga Sandy and her crew.
This time, we were accompanied by Kathy, Elissa, and Marcia.
I had the Picnic Primavera, in fond memory of my recent bday67 girls' trip and the three picnic lunches we shared.
Very nice it was, and I had a taste of Kathy's Fish & Chips and Marcia's Brussels sprouts!
Here's the point, though.
When it came time to pay our tabs, Elissa found out that she earned a $10 credit for next time, as she had been the one who arranged the reservation for our party.
What a nice perk!

Last Saturday's night out had almost gone wrong, though.
Joel made the reservation that time.
We were to go to Flock To The Wok, and they required a deposit of $20 per person - ouch!
Then, when he came to pick me up, the thunderstorm that had been threatening let loose, forcing us to pull off the road.
Fortunately, when he called the restaurant, they allowed him to cancel with no charge - hooray!
Sandy and Elissa were with us and they welcomed my recommendation to go to The Narra Tree - hooray!
Marcia joined us and we all shared Lumpia, courtesy of Joel - very nice!
I'm sure that was a relief to him, as he would have lost $100 if the other restaurant had not agreed to cancel his reservation.
 
So, two different experiences with reservations.
Wait... make that three, including the one to The Rainforest Cafe. 
That had also required a credit card deposit to hold our table.
I forgot about that, since Christina made that reservation. 
I still favor eateries that let you just walk up and dine.

do you have a reservation, part three

Thorpe: We need rooms tonight.

Resort clerk: I'm sorry, you need a reservation.

Thorpe: Excuse me?

Resort clerk: A reservation?

Thorpe: Really.

Resort clerk: A reser... oh, I didn't mean it like that. I mean you need to reser- book before you get here because we're all full. That's what I meant.

Thorpe: You know what I heard? You told me and my friends that we need to go back to the reservation.

Resort clerk: Oh, no...

Thorpe: Do you have any idea what I can do to you on Yelp? You might want to get your boss out here. Or, you could take another look.

Resort clerk: I will take another look!

--------------------------------------------

Hahahaha!!!

That scene is one of the reasons I so love "Cold Pursuit"!

The entire exchange between 'Thorpe' (Raoul Trujillo) and the 'Resort clerk' (Loretta Walsh) lasts less than sixty seconds, but it cracks me us every time!

I do so love a good pun, and that one really works!

I'm so glad I used my Comcast $1 Movie Night Reward to see this movie again today - and it must be a premium for Lionsgate, as they only allow a 24-hour rental of it.

Most sites allow at least 48 hours, with Disney giving 72 hours per rental.

That's all right, though - I watched "Cold Pursuit" twice today!

I love the music in it - I love the way they count up the dead for you - I love the placid worker Liam Neeson plays - and I even love that all those snow scenes have a cool and refreshing effect on me!

Aaaahhhh... just what I needed after an hour of mowing the back yard and bagging all the cuttings so they don't mulch the Digitaria sanguinalis.

That's the worldwide weed better known as crabgrass around here, though it's called Polish millet over in Europe.

Those Y-shaped shoots waving in the air are called inflorescences and they are edible, black seeds and all, and are a source of protein. 

So, there's a little science about that hardy source of aggravation. 

Maybe I'll try harvesting them sometime.

The ones I cut today are almost waist-high on me. 

I'm so glad to have a battery-operated lawn mower.

By the time the Ryobi conks out, I'm more than ready to stop.

Saturday, June 21, 2025

we're gonna need a bigger boat

"Don't tell me, let me guess! You watched "Jaws" last night?"
 
I did! It was on TV for it's 50th Anniversary, so I tuned in for the last half. I just love the interplay between Richard Dreyfuss, Robert Shaw, and Roy Scheider. Real sailor talk going on right there, with men just being men around other men! Fabulous!
 
"So your post title is paying homage to the line uttered when they first encounter the shark in the open sea?"
 
Kinda sorta. I actually heard those very words just a few minutes ago.
 
"Do tell."
 
I've been catching up on this season's "Poker Face". I just finished s2e6, "Sloppy Joseph", set in an elementary prep school. Think future "Heathers" and "Mean Girls" in the making for the lead character, 'Stephanie'. 'Charlie Cale' lands a job as a lunch lady there.
 
"Excuse me? How did she manage to do that? She would have had to get a background check and get special training to be around kids. How did she navigate that red tape with her history of being a wanderer?"
 
She was there temporarily, based on the condition that her background check pan out.
 
"Yeah, yeah, artistic license and all that."
 
Anyway, this episode had a talent show in it, one that 'Stephanie' wanted desperately to win, as the prize was 40 gold stars. She was an absolute fool for those stars, it was like an addiction. She knew, though, that 'Elijah' was most likely to win, as his magic trick far bested anything else. 
 
"Ah, I get it now. You love magic!"
 
I do, and this little boy was very talented. He had taught Joseph the Gerbil - love the alliteration! - to "stay in the boat", an area in his collapsible purple-cloth ball. The "boat" was right over as escape door that the boy would open before striking the ball with a giant mallet. Can you guess what 'Stephanie' did?
 
"Oh, no! She sabotaged the trick, didn't she? She got that poor little creature killed, didn't she? What an evil little girl..."
 
Yep, she did all that, but it was 'Elijah' that got blamed for making sloppy joes out of Joseph. That boy was so chagrined!!! He had loved that particular little animal. He kept saying "Stay in the boat! Stay in the boat!", even after he got home and his dad was trying to calm him down. 'Charlie' came by the dad's house and overheard that phrase, but it didn't make sense to her until she was given the task of feeding the remaining hamsters. The class kept them in a cage decorated as Noah's Ark. Click!!! Her brain put the puzzle pieces together. That's when she spoke the line to the teacher, as they came up with a plan to trap 'Stephanie' into confessing to the crime.
 
"Good for them! That sounds like a pretty good episode. I'll have to maybe watch it sometime."
 
(smile!) Yeah, you do that! Hahahaha! I need to get ready for Saturday night with Sandy and her girls! We're going to Oak 36 this time and there's supposed to be live music. I wonder if they have a dance floor?

scrabble by myself, kinda sorta

 
Incredible, it was, this game of Scrabble.
No, wait, it's a horse of a different color, isn't it?
AARP calls their game "Outspell", but we all know what it is, right?
It's Scrabble, the game I whip out and play, solitaire-style, whenever bad weather had rendered me without electricity.
With AARP, they like to pit me against an imaginary, nameless, opponent.
Fine by me!
They always - I mean, always - have me play first.
I laid out "s-e-x" and waited.
The opponent passed.
For my second turn, I put "f-e-z" on the board.
The opponent again passed.
For the third play, I placed a "y" at the end of "sex", hoping that might help stimulate some action from the opponent.
Nope!
That was another pass.
For my fourth and fifth turns at this apparent game of solitaire Scrabble, I added an "o" to form "of", then a "d" for "dos", respectively.
Pass and pass was the reaction.
That's when I whipped out my phone to document this round of Outspell.
My sixth word, "q-u-a-d", is shown in green as I had not yet pressed "submit".
That proved to finally be helpful to the opponent, whose board of tiles must have been much more limited than mine.
Still, what a nice first word they played: "d-u-g-o-u-t" - play ball!!!
(smile!)
That lengthy time of no play on their part led to their eventual loss.
Their last formed words were a double with an "i", yielding "hi" and "pi", but leaving them with two tiles yet to use.
My last, and final, words were also a double.
Using my last tile, a "u", I got both "pu" and "cu".
How's that for putting my 25 years of teaching general chemistry to work?
That ties in nicely with my invention, too!
Perhaps that was a little inside joke from the Universe, eh?
Good one!!!
Such a nice way to pass nineteen minutes!
Now, off to the next adventure! 
(smile!)

Friday, June 20, 2025

noaa news that was news to me!

 
Guess where I learned that news?
At Jalapenos of Skidaway, during the end of the S&K Friday Fiesta.
Guess who told me that news?
My sister-in-law Mary did!
She and Smitty had been with me (and Jeff) in 2004 when we all went to the Mexican Riviera together on a cruise.
That's the time when I went to the Hotel California, the same one that the Eagles sing about, on a side trip in Cabo San Lucas.
So very cool!!!
We also toured a coconut plantation and saw where the movie "When A Man Loves A Woman" when we were in Acapulco... or was that Puerto Vallarta? 
The memories are crystallized, just the names are a bit fuzzy.
Anyway, the reason I brought up that trip is this: Hurricane Erick.
Mary had asked if I knew about Acapulco getting hit by that hurricane.
Say what???
I did not know anything about that!
I asked her, "Have we already had five named storms and I missed all that?"
She had not thought of it like that.
But with Erick beginning with an "E", that's what we would have had to have. 
Had we already had five tropical storms with hurricane potential???
As it turned out, we have not.
In fact "we" - meaning those of us with coasts on the Atlantic Ocean or the Gulf Of Mexico - have not yet had even one named storm yet this year.
In fact "our" fifth named storm will be "Erin".
So, what gives???
Apparently, point of origin makes a difference.
Since the hurricane formed off the eastern Pacific coast, its name was "Erick".
One more thing: if the hurricane forms in the western Pacific, we call it a typhoon and it will have yet another name.
Tropical cyclones, like hurricanes and typhoons, occur worldwide, by the way, not just off the coast of the United States.
Our news outlets don't share a lot of that information, though.
It isn't because they don't find it to be news.
No, the issue is this: that type of news is not anything they can use to sell advertising to support their radio or TV stations, or their newspapers, of their journals.
Most people, as I've mentioned before, are more occupied with earning a living and keeping a roof over their heads.
They just want news that will affect their here and now, not stories about distant places with distant people they don't know personally.
Sure, they will tune in for tales about natural disasters or man-made ones, like war, and will especially do so if photographs are included or video news-bites.
That's how Mary found out about the hurricane in Mexico.
So that's how I found out about it, from her, but then I researched on BBC and got the whole story about that event, not just the bite.
Then I went to the National Hurricane Center to learn more.
That's what scientists do.
We keep looking in rabbit holes until we find the rabbit. 
Science!!!
(smile!

Thursday, June 19, 2025

dragon of juneteenth

"Wait, let me guess! Okay, today is June 19th, so I take it that you're marking that date in US history from exactly 160 years ago. So far, so good?"

Most exactly!

"Alrighty then! And that other part of the title refers to the movie you saw today with Michael and the twins!"

Oh, so close, but nope! Yes, I was supposed to see "How To Train Your Dragon" in Big-D with them today, courtesy of the two free reward tickets from Comcast. Alas, that didn't happen. Sure, it still showed up on my A*List that I went to that dance, but I missed it. AMC even gave me Bonus Reward points for those tickets from the Fandango site.

"Well, that's a good thing, but I'm confused. Why didn't you go to the movie with them?"

My little Saturn wouldn't start. Not even a click when I turned the key. Not even a click when Kevin Sullivan - my neighbor - attached his jump box. Not even a click when I popped the clutch to start it while rolling down the driveway to the street. Nothing.

"Oh, honey, I am so sorry to hear that."

Yeah, me, too. I did have a nice chat with that young man from Minnesota who drove the tow truck. No charge to me, as AllState covered the fee from Field Maintenance Company. I had my girl towed to Firestone of Skidaway, of course. They weren't able to do the repair, but Patricia didn't charge me and Aaron disconnected the wires to the running lights. It wasn't that those lights were the culprit for draining the battery. Nope. The problem is with the multi-function switch. I've been referred to the electrical folks at Dixie Motors and The Car Doctor for the actual repair, if and when the part can actually be located. They told me, though, that it isn't just older cars that have parts that are hard to find these days.

"You didn't notice any problems with the car before this morning?"

Well, last night, when I returned from dinner, I couldn't get the headlights to turn off. You're gonna laugh about this. I had taken the key out of the ignition before I noticed that there was still light in front of the car. I even waited a moment to see if they would turn off! Hahaha! But they didn't. Even with the light switch off and the key out of the car. So I put the key back in and cranked the car... no problem. I turned on the lights and then turned them off with the switch, then turned off the car and removed the key. That seemed to have worked, so I just passed it off as 'one of those weird things'. You know? Intermittent problems were always the worst to solve when I was a CTM in the Navy. The guy at Firestone, though, assured me that this is not intermittent. It's here to stay and the multifunction switch needs to be replaced.

"I see. But let me get this right. You weren't charged anything today? Not for the tow or the hour-long diagnostic and labor at the car place?"

That's correct. Christina suggested it might have been because I recently had new tires put on her car. I really don't know.

"Oh, you've talked to her? Like, heard her voice?"

Yes, I called her to see how things were going between her and Michael. She told me on Monday that he was mad at her, but she didn't know why. Apparently, they worked things out - she was at his house this afternoon, making dinner together!

"That's wonderful! She had been so worried about him. He had texted her to say for her to 'leave him alone, no more dinners at his place, she had lied to him and he had almost gone to jail about it'."

Yes, very odd, and apparently all over now. In fact, she knew he and the girls were to see the dragon movie with me and he'd even invited her to come along! I do wish she had sent me a text that all was well with them. Oh, well, it is what it is.

"Yes, it is. Naught for you to do 'bout that. She has a lot of people to try to placate - him, Kaleigh, Heather, Chelsea, her mom, you, and now Anthony, too - and she's doing the best she can. So, let it go. Why don't you tell me about your trio of dances this week?"

It's not a trio, but a quartet now for my AMC A*List, remember? AMC can't seem to keep them in the proper order, though, so I must be twirling from one genre to another too quickly for them! First was "The Materialists", which looked like a romcom in the previews, but certainly was not. Pedro Pascal was just so misused in that "business of love" piece. Next was the one on Monday with Christina. 

"So, a drama, then a horror flick. Gotcha."

On Tuesday, after mowing part of the front yard, bagging the cuttings this time instead of leaving them for mulch, I needed to cool off, so to the cinema I went. 

"You must have your time line confused. You went to the theater in the morning."

Nope. That wasn't to the AMC, but to the NCG. I wasn't able to mow until the day had cooled down, so I had to wait until almost 8 PM to break out the Ryobi. That meant going to the 9:30 PM screening of "Karate Kid: Legends". Very nice movie it was! I always like Jackie Chan, but I always think he looks more than 4 years older than me. I guess 71 would look older on anyone who's been as rode hard as he's been! Ralph Macchio is looking older, too, which is to be expected. He's right between Smitty and Ronnie in age.

"Everyone gets older, that's what they do. Get older or die, those are the options. But, yeah, I know the mental images are forever one age."

Right, until you see them again in the present. That's life!

"So it is! So, for your quartet, you had drama, horror, sports theme, and fantasy scifi. Did I get that line-up straight?"

Yes, you did, and you three in a little pun, too! Thanks for that!

"Any time, dearie! I know how much you love those!" 

Wednesday, June 18, 2025

renegade of longhorn!

 
Here it is, another outing with the physicist come and gone, and all I have to show for it is a photograph of the food.
Seriously.
We were there four hours!!!
We shut the place down!!!
And, yet, I never managed to get a single photo of me and him together???
Apparently so. 
Sure, Longhorn closes at 10 PM on Wednesdays, so that's still fairly early.
But, the thing is, here's the thing: we'd been there since 6 PM and were done with the meal shortly after 8.
The waitress didn't mind, though, as the section was clearing out around us.
We weren't being loud or obnoxious, we were just talking... and talking... and talking.
We do that every time we get together.
(smile!)
I talked a little bit about my bday67 Girls' Trip, but he truly doesn't like anything that has to do with children, so I let that lapse after a brief recap.
Mostly, we talked about adult things, like the need for wills and power of attorneys, things that parents have that non-parents also need.
He spoke of his trip to see friends in New York, friends whose children are now in their teens, and the baseball games he had to go to with them.
He spoke of Jeannette, a petsitter he met, who makes $100,000 yearly at that job.
That tied in nicely with my Dane-sitting that I'd done, as well as the cat-sitter fees he gave Lea's daughter for watching Emily.
He spoke of the six days he spent in OhiO visiting his parents, trying to make it a worthwhile trip as he hasn't seen them in years.
We talked about various religions, ranging from Buddhism to Judaism, from Church of Christ to Pentecostal, from Methodist to Unitarian Universalist.
That was a very cool chat!
I'm so glad the bfe has such a good time talking to with me!
By the way, I'm one of four non-business people he talks to on the phone.
I know how much he dislikes being on the phone, so that makes me special.
(smile!)

Tuesday, June 17, 2025

top-notch scifi for tina tuesday!

I even saw that science fiction film in the morning, wonder of wonders.
Plus, it was -not- at the AMC, but at NCG.
That means I paid for it.
Totally worth it!
The movie was "The Life Of Chuck", made last year but catching a lot of buzz on TV for the past week or so.
Fair warning: for those planning to see it, kindly don't read farther.
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It wasn't until the second part that I caught on that this was scifi.
From the previews, it comes off as a romance - nope, not at all. 
The narrator spoke of the main character being at the point where he has nine months left to live due to the brain tumor that has begun giving him headaches.
Nine months.
That got my attention.
I had just watched as The Universe had begun its downward spiral toward oblivion, with the timeline being just over eight months before total annihilation. 
In the first part - titled Act 3 - the movie begins on an apocalyptic note, with a side of Walt Whitman, of all things.
It's an English literature class and a student is reciting the following line from his poem, "Song Of Myself".
"I am large, I contain multitudes.
That line is from the penultimate section of the 52-part piece.
Did I say 52, like the number of weeks in a year?
I did.
That number also ties in with the Carl Sagan's concept of the cosmic calendar, which portrays the life of The Universe in terms of a 52-week, 12-month calendar.
The literature teacher discusses that topic in some detail with his ex-wife in a phone conversation when she calls in distress about all the mayhem in the world.
He was trying to put into perspective the time that humans have existed
What mayhem would that be?
The total loss of the internet eight months earlier; the sliding of California in the Pacific Ocean while Florida is covered by the Atlantic Ocean and Gulf of Mexico; the loss of TV service in the following months; the loss of cell phone service soon after; the loss of electricity as the world goes dark; then, in the last moments, the winking out of the stars and planets as Earth fails to exist.
That truly was stunning to watch.
 
Flash forward to the final part of the movie, titled "Act 1".
The title character's early life is detailed there.
He learns about the love of dancing, and of musicals, from his paternal grandmother. 
He learns about the cosmic calendar while watching Carl Sagan's "Cosmos" with his paternal grandfather, who also teaches him about the value of numbers and math, in both accounting and dancing.
(He lived with both of them after his father and pregnant mother died in a car wreck.) 
He learns about that Walt Whitman's long-winded poem, even having a discussion about "I contain multitudes" with his teacher.
That's when I truly identified with the theme of this story.
The teacher told him the phrase meant that everyone he ever knew, everyone in his periphery, everyone beyond their periphery, everyone everywhere beyond their degrees of separation from him, were all contained within the bounds of his mind.
Wow.
I've mused about that a time or two in the past.
Everyone lives in their own world anyway, right? 
What if... everything in the world is just part of my imagination?
What if... the world I live in is part of someone else's imagination?  
What if... my being a volunteer at the Lucas Theatre for the "Frost On Leaves Of Grass" concert was not for my benefit, but for that of the conductor?
What if... my being a volunteer at the Green Room for the Savannah Music Festival practice was not for my benefit, but for that of the pianist?
What if... all of that only existed in my mind???
Indeed.
 
Those two acts tied together nicely, but what was the middle one, as Otto would ask?
That was pure joy, driven by the absolute wonder of being alive on a blue sky day!
"Act 2" was stand-alone, but tied together the entire movie.
It was also the only part of the film that justified the "R" rating.
That's because variations of my favorite word were liberally strewn about.
What word is that? 
The F-bomb, f*ck, f&ck, f-ck... yeah, that one.
The word only was used there, but used repeatedly by the narrator.
Trust me, it was warranted to set the mood of the female dancer.
Yes, I said 'dancer', as that was her profession.
It was not his, though.
'Charles Krantz' was an accountant, in town just for a conference, and out for a stroll in the brilliant afternoon sunshine after a full morning of lectures inside a building.
Then he hears the drummer busking on the street, just outside the building he was approaching, and something bid him pause.
Had he recognized the face reflected in the glass as that of the vision he had seen when he was just 17, when he'd entered the room his grandpa had marked off limits?
Of course, I wouldn't have been privy to that vision until "Act 1" came later.
Was it, then, the combination of the promise of the spring day and the insistence of the beat that prompted him to drop his briefcase and move his body?
I know very well that feeling!
In fact, ask Tony Clark sometime about me dancing to his drumming at an Eat Mo' Music concert at Jazz'd Tapas over two decades ago, when his beats had inspired my dancing which had inspired his continued artistry with the drum kit as everyone else became spectators watching me and him until he finished the music - such a crystallized memory!!!
 

And so I rejoiced when the dancing accountant and the street performer had continued their musical conversation, changing up to new steps and a new beat that encouraged the half-moon of those gathered around to sway to the sound under the glowing sun!
And I rejoiced when the young woman having a bad day consented to join him as he danced, allowing her mood to brighten and all there to release their troubles and cares and simply live vicariously in the two dancers!
They only had the one dance, that brief sparkling moment in time, but it linked the trio - him, her, the drummer - after the crowd had dispersed back into their own lives.
And why had he chosen to dance that day?
We learn that in the final part of the movie.
"That is why God made the world."
Wow.
That ties in exactly with the message from another movie:
"We have to dance to let God know we are grateful to be alive."
 
Kudos to Tom Hiddleston as the dancer!
I don't recall seeing him dance in "Midnight In Paris", but I knew his face was familiar. 
That movie from 2011 had revolved around Owen Wilson's character and the many people from the literary past that he met.
Very enjoyable, both that one and this one.
What a lovely way to start my Tina Tuesday!
i thank You, God!