Saturday, March 28, 2026
theatre: not just on the stage
Wednesday, March 25, 2026
gravy, y'all
"What's that? You had gravy with dinner?"
Why, yes, I did! Actually, for the last three weeks in a row! All of that brought to mind a "Star Trek: TNG" meme that Sherry Giddens posted. The Captain asks, "Gravity is powerful, do you know what you get if you remove it?" His First Officer replies, "Weightlessness, sir." In all seriousness, he hears the response, "Gravy. Number One, you get gravy."
"Hahahaha! Poor Riker! Having to put up with those puns from Picard!"Well, that was a riddle, not a pun. But it sure was funny! And the last three Wednesday night suppers at Asbury have all had gravy!
"Oh, nice! I do enjoy that meat-derived sauce! We don't get that very often, since you don't know how to make it."
Truth. Tonight, it was turkey gravy, served on the mashed potatoes. Last week, it was gravy with mushrooms for the chicken Marsala. And the week before was beef gravy from the pot roast, also served on mashed potatoes. I prefer in on rice, but I'll take it however I can get it!"That looks really good! Where are your veggies on that plate?"
I don't like peas and carrots, so I abstained. I do have a nice little salad, though! And I have two desserts!!! That's blackberry cobbler and a slice of something that tasted like bread pudding, but looked like cake. Quite tasty!
"Was Kathy Mayin there for these WNS meals? I recall she went to the first one with you and seemed to enjoy herself."
Sadly, she has not been back. We make plans, but then she backs out. I even tried to get her to come for the Sisters In Faith luncheon last week, but that didn't happen, either. I'm not going to push her. I know she'll be back when she's ready, right? She's grown, she gets to make her own decisions.
"I understand. I hope she will soon decide to make more ventures out of her apartment. It'll be good for her mental health and her spirits."
Agreed! I know I look forward to these social gatherings. Meals are nicer with others to share the food and conversation. Okay, time for "Scrubs"! I really am enjoying this continuation of the original series.
"You mean the reboot of the old show?"
No, it isn't like that. It's more like a reunion. It's nice to see them rekindling their old friendships. That's a realistic approach for people who have lost touch while life interfered. You know: jobs, kids, moving to new locations. I can relate to it. So, later, chica!
"Hasta la bye-bye!"
Tuesday, March 24, 2026
one foot for the driving
"That's correct, if you have an automatic transmission. The right foot handles both the gas pedal and the brake, as only one of those is ever in action at a time. If you're using your left foot for the brake, you're driving wrong."
I'm so glad you're aware of that! It's startling to me how often someone will have a foot going on both the gas and the brake simultaneously. Don't they know they're burning up their brakes, wasting gas, and straining their engine??
"For sure. Is that why you put that title? And what's with the photo? Wait a minute... your room heater and the fan are both plugged in to the power strip! Now, that's wasting energy!!!"Ah. It's only wasting energy if I have both engaged at the same time. However, I do not. Only the heater is on. See it's little light?
"Yes, now that you mention it."
Well, I turned it on earlier to take the chill off the bedroom.
Now, I've turned on my heated mattress pad to do the same for the bed itself. Here's the funny thing: last night I had to use the fan to cool off the room!"Holy shiite! Look at that thirty-degree dip in the weather song!!!"
Exactly. Monday's high was almost 90F. That's right: 90!!! The heat in the attic came down into the house and made it nice and toasty, so much so that I needed a fan to cool my room down enough to sleep. Then the high today, barely hit 60F. All that lovely heat I'd let inside yesterday has dissipated and the temperature inside is back to about 67F. Hence, I've turned on the heater to warm my room back up to 70F, thrown the extra blanket on the bed, and turned on the mattress pad.
"Wow. I guess that's why you told Yvonne that the weather is going through puberty. She had said menopause, with hot flashes, but those cold dips don't fit that theory."
Exactly. Plus, as I told her, the changes are much more in line with a boy going through puberty, complete with sperm sprayed all around! She and Cathy thought that was hilarious! and just look at this latest weather song, would ya? We'll have almost 90F again on Friday, then it'll drop back into the forties overnight!!! Crazy kid needs to get a handle on those raging hormones!"Hahahaha! Yeah, I wish you luck with that, dear. At least these spring bouts of fluctuating hormones doesn't last but a month or so. Real puberty goes on for much longer. Your nephew Michael is getting a taste of that with his girls. Alyssa has already started menstruating, hasn't she? And Hope probably is having boy issues with Sebi."
Yep! If they didn't have gray hairs before, they will now. I'm so fortunate to have missed out on raising teenagers. Thanks, Dr. Pacifico in Okinawa, for granting me that tubal ligation when no one else would. It probably helped that we had a rash of unplanned pregnancies in the barracks at the time. That prompted all of us having to undergo education classes about sexual health and birth control methods. That's when I started asking for that procedure, and, after nearly a year, he agreed. Right place, right time for me.
"Indeed, it was. If you hadn't been in the Navy, I doubt that would have ever come to pass."
Oh, I know it wouldn't have. The rule was that a woman had to have already had two babies before she could be considered, and that's if she was single. If she were married, then her husband had to consent to the surgery before she could have it. How antiquated that all sounds! But we're only talking about the early 1980's. That's only two generations ago.
"Do you know if that rule has changed?"
I have no idea, but I hope so. A woman should always be able to control what is done with her own body, and that includes her reproductive body parts.
May 25th for eagle's landing
Saturday, March 21, 2026
let them eat cake!
Friday, March 20, 2026
netflix film fest with a dane
friday fiesta, sans two brothers
Thursday, March 19, 2026
when irish eyes are smiling, danny boy!
Those were the first two songs at our Sisters In Faith luncheon!
Kristen Kelso was there with her guitar to regale us with song in Holliday Hall, and I just know that Miss Virginia was with us!!
Kristen followed those two with "Hallelujah".
Hoping to lighten the theme, I requested "The Unicorn Song", and even sang a few lines - "There's cats and rats and elephants, but sure as you're born, you're never gonna see no unicorn" - but she'd never played it before.
Instead, she sang "The Sound Of Music", no doubt to honor Michelle Meece who'd just finished a three-week run starring in that musical.That's Michelle, dressed as a leprechaun in suspenders and a tam!
Then Kristen did an oldie from 1952: "It's Saint Patrick's Day In Savannah".
That definitely put a spring back into the room!
(smile!)
And what was on the menu for this luncheon?Breakfast!!!
Scrambled eggs, bacon, sausage, blueberry pancakes!
Banana nut muffins, breakfast casseroles, fruit salads!
But no grits, no biscuits, not from these Northern transplants!
So glad I was joined by Kathy Hodges, Barbara Gooby, Rhonda Reed, and Robin Eifler at my table!
Plus, fellow Sister-in-Faith Cece was there, sitting by Kathy.
Another Kathy - Mayin - was to come, but didn't make it.I saved her a seat by me, just the same!
Perhaps the weather was not quite as nice as she'd hoped.
It was supposed to be well into the 70's today, but that's not until tomorrow it seems.
That's okay, the weather song shows a true lilt for the weekend!
Hallelujah!!!
(smile!)
Tuesday, March 17, 2026
coffee on the porch time
"I didn't think you drank coffee anymore."
That's true. I haven't had coffee for maybe a year.
"I'm talking about even the decaf."
I know. Me, too.
"Then what's up with this post?"
That's the phrase that the dog knows. "Coffee on the porch" means time to go out on the front porch and bark at folks walking or running or biking."Oh, cool! You're puppysitting, just like Finch was!"
LOL! Not that Dane could be called a puppy anymore. He's more than a decade old, which makes him a septuagenarian in dog years.
"I thought Tony and Laura took him along on trips. Not this time?"
She's going to be at a conference, so the rate to have him stay at the Rosen Centre was preposterous. Plus, he doesn't really travel well.
"Well, I'm glad they gave you the chance to spend time with the old dog."
Yes, me, too! Now, to see if I can figure out their new TV set-up... wish me luck, won't you?
"You got it. Good luck with the remote!"
special delivery from my first niece!
The green envelope had a pot of gold drawn on it, as well as a multicolored rainbow to the right of the address and a shamrock - that looked suspiciously akin to my scribble flower! - taking up the left edge.
Very nice art work!
The card inside boasted a pot bursting with flowers and shamrocks, as well as wording that proclaimed it to be "A wee little wish for St. Patrick's Day".
What was inside that card was the true treasure!Here's wishing you a day (with her green shooting star!)
that's budding with promise (here, she drew a rainbow!)
bright with celebration (from her shiny, happy sun!)
and blossoming with joy. (and a perky pink flower for me!)
Then, she wrote in six different colors to form another rainbow, with her daughters' names, too!This will be going on the entertainment center to cheer me for the parade later this morning.
Of course, I read it all aloud when I received it!
After all, I'd just had lunch with Christina and Miyah and we were waiting for a chilly rain shower to pass on by.We were at Cancun, one of our longtime favorites, and it was even her treat!
And just look at what Miyah has for her luncheon: three crispy beef tacos!!!
Hahahahaha!
That's one of my favorites for Friday Fiestas, but today I had flautas.
One was chicken, the other beef, and both were excellent, as well as pretty, topped with salad!
Christina had one of the combos, plus my bday43 cards for her!One contained this 'wish puff tree of love', the other $25 to Texas Roadhouse.
That's come in handy for Friday when she and Anthony come to town for a concert that Michael gave her for her birthday yesterday!
Most excellent!!!
Thank you, my dearest Christina, for this time with you...
... and this card with your special touches!
(smile!)
Monday, March 16, 2026
counting flowers on the wall, that don't bother me at all
Yes, boys and girls, "News Radio" was on with this episode very early today, narrated by Kelsey Grammar.
And why ever would the Finch be so upset?The whole office chipped in for it!
But it's a turtle calendar... from that year... so it wasn't even new!
What the fresh hell?!?!
So, in the company of the little dog he had to puppysit for the boss, he set about wreaking havoc on the gifts for the others."Bah!!! Humbug!!!", he cried with glee!!!
Meanwhile, Nina had gone was a drink to raise her spirits.She'd watched "Titanic" and felt forlorn about all those fashions that went down with the ship!
And who should appear but a friendly 'lumberjack' named Jay Crew?
After some afternoon delight, she saw the error of her ways and embraced casual wear!!!
That was just in time for a forlorn Elliot to bring in a tree to decorate the office.Goodness gracious - shades of Charlie Brown!!!
It looked pretty sad, but seemed to bring him great cheer, so that was good.Then a wondrous thing happened: the Finch discovered that the turtle calendar had a special gift written in for Christmas Day!
It was a cruise, just for him, with lots of perks in every port!
They did like him, they really, really did!
(smile!)
Now, right on cue, it's time for me to go out to lunch with my Hinesville peeps!
Oh, what's up with the Statler Brothers song in the title?
Ivan of the League of Savannah Bloggers was grousing on fb about a botched delivery by the Instacart folks.
He wrote "smoking cigarettes and watching Captain Kangaroo" ... and, justthatfast, my mental jukebox kicked in with a response!
"Playing solitaire 'til dawn with a deck of fifty-one!"
Hahahaha! Good times, good times!
Sunday, March 15, 2026
rhapsody in blue is one hundred and two
Saturday, March 14, 2026
thank you, thomas, for the help
He's the young man who saw me struggling to mow my front yard who came to see if he could help me. I'd managed to get about half of the right side of the front yard done at that point. I admit, with this inguinal hernia, cutting the grass was wearing me out. He was outside doing yard work, too, three houses from mine, and walked over to ask if I would like his help.
"Wow. He sounds like a very well-mannered fellow."
Yes, he is. He wasn't trying to imply that I needed help; he simply asked if I would like some help. Very nice. What I gathered from our conversation is that he is the son of two teachers. Thomas and his wife, Hannah, moved in here by the park during the fall.
"Why did they move to Savannah?"
Actually, his folks are from here. His dad graduated from Groves in 1980, so he's about my age. Thomas said he and his wife had been living in Ardsley Park, but wanted to live over in this area. Perhaps they are looking to have children, and this area is near schools from elementary to high school, so that's good.
"Good for them for planning ahead, if that's the case. Did you ask him to mow the spiral pattern under your Japanese magnolia tree?"
Honestly, I was so relieved to have him doing the work that I didn't say anything about that. There will be plenty of time in the future for me to mow that back in place.
"I see that he's using your Ryobi. How did he like it?"
I think it's convinced him that battery-operated is the way to go. It's certainly a lot quieter! After the battery died, he just had a little bit left to mow, so he went home and brought his mower over here. I couldn't believe he did that for me! But it gets better. After he finished the front yard, he asked if I minded if he did the back yard, too."What??? That's incredible!"
He works as a personal trainer, he told me, and rarely gets outside. He likes working in the yard and he likes mowing grass. I'll say this: I don't think he even broke a sweat. He also seemed very laid back and calm. I tried to give him a bottle of water, but he said he has that at home. He was done with my entire yard within 90 minutes. He took his time, making sure it was cut well, and seemed quite content to be doing that. I am so grateful!
"I am happy for you, dear, that someone stepped up to help."
Thank you. I did make sure he had the address for the neighborhood's fb page, as well as my name. He said he doesn't do fb, but his wife does. I'll have to look out for her so I can say hi. He said she'll be "the red head walking the black puppy". (smile!)


















































