Thursday, February 18, 2010

chores

You know, one of the downsides to being single is there's no one else to get things done but yourself. Ran out of milk? Well, then, you should have gone to the store on your way home.
No more clean underwear? Hey, you saw the laundry piling up! You ain't blind!
Can't find a clean cup? Hmm, maid service 'round here is the pits.
Dust bunnies running to meet you when you come home? Well, you were talking about getting a pet, right?
Honestly, it really gets to me every once in a while, and this is definitely one of those times. It seems I just get done with washing dishes and the task has to be done again. A dishwasher would have to be ultra-powerful to get off the bits and pieces left behind for a week or more.
I've needed to go to the store since Sunday, but I haven't made it there just yet. One thing after another seems to get in the way and I'll say, "oh, I'll just shop on the way home." Never happens. Once I'm on autopilot heading home, I don't even think "Oh, milk!" until I'm pulling up in the driveway. So, I nurse the little I do have, stretching it for one more day, one more cup of coffee, for one MORE day. Aaarrggghhhhh!
And I have no one but myself to blame. Absolutely no one. Oh, poor me. Poor, poor me.
Then I think of my friends who are raising children. Then I think of those who are raising children by themselves, working every day, still needing to take care of all these little mundane tasks that are part and parcel of civilized life. I have it so easy, in so many ways! Hats off to YOU, dear friends, and kudos for all your efforts. Truly. I honestly don't know how you do it. Well, actually, my best friend once replied to that line with "someone had to do it and I was the only one who could. So I did."
Now, if you don't mind, I have dishes to wash and laundry to sort...

3 comments:

faustina said...

fb flashback from Feb. 16, 2010:
"Off to hear some dirty talk, y'all! I'll let you know if they were contenders..."
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Perry Foster
going to the comedy show??
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Faustina Smith
Good to see you there, kid! it's been too long. Guess I'll have to wend my way to McDonough's some night!

faustina said...

fb flashback from Feb. 18, 2010:
"Tomorrow is Friday and I'll be off to Atlanta for some good times with my BFF. Life is GOOD."
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Penny Walker Bos
Life IS good! I'm excited for you and for the fun you'll have all weekend! Travel safely.
xoxox
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Deatre Nicole Boyles Denion
Safe travels!
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Sandra Voelker
Come on girl!!!!

faustina said...

fb flashback from Feb. 21, 2010:
[photo of my BFF with daughter Morgan and son Zakk]
"Here are my dear family, just before they had to push my car out of the mud... which I got stuck in when I ran off the side of the driveway into the boggy front yard... Thanks, y'all!!!"
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Ernest Delong
These folks look vaguely familiar.... uncanny resemblance to my family.
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Morgan Cryer
Haha im sorry but that was sooo funny!! It wouldnt have gotten out without my help....
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Zakk De Long
why isnt mom smiling ? unhappy fellow
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Faustina Smith
Hey, her BFF was leaving to go back home... cut her some slack, eh?
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Morgan Cryer
Oh Lord Zakk Tyle De Long Sandra Voelker Faustina Smith