Monday, April 20, 2026

today, i was proud of my students

"Your students? You haven't taught for nearly eight years, ya know."

Yes, I was reminded of that yesterday while talking to Cathy of California. She'd called to check in and made sure I knew she was retiring on June 29! I told her I keep thinking it's been 7 years, but... I retired in May of 2018... so next month will make 8 years.

"Yes, indeed. You need to plan something to commemorate that occasion. So, what brought that up tonight?"

Well, you know that crazy TV show I like? "The Game With Balls"? Tonight was the second show of their second season and it had male firefighters - complete with them partially clad in calendar shots!!! - versus male and female nurses. I liked that diversity, as some of my students had been men, too. Anyway, it gets down to one lone firefighter playing three rounds all by himself. All of the others - all five on the nurses' team, as well as his two brothers and the other two from their fire house - had all missed answers and fallen into the pool. Splash!!!

"Oh, wow!"

So, he manages to win them $31,000, theirs to keep. Then he gets to go up against the Golden Balls for $100,000 of prize money. All he has to do is answer five questions correctly, that's all.

"Easier said than done, I'm sure!"

Get this: he chooses "Chemistry" over "Girl Groups". "Chemistry"!!! He says that's the topic he goes for when playing "Trivia Crack", whatever that is. The other four guys applauded like crazy!!! Apparently, he does pretty well with that. And so I was excited to see what would happen in this duel between Nate and those Golden Balls.

"And..."

And he did impressively well! The question that stumped him would have gotten me, too. But the others? He really did know his science! The first question had been a soft pitch. "Which element forms table salt when combined with chlorine?" He knew immediately that was "Sodium"! Take that, you Golden Ball!

"Hahahaha! That was an easy choice, though. Given that the other possibilities were 'Lead', 'Nickel', 'Nitrogen', 'Boron', and 'Hydrogen'."

Very true. The next question was a little harder. "Legume plants are known for fixing which element into the soil?" Well, he ran right onto the space for 'Nitrogen', knowing that element to be good for dirt... and he was right, of course!

"Oh, nice, you caught that in the photo!"

You bet I did! The third question was a bit harder. "Deuterium is an isotope of which element?" My students would have known 'isotope' means 'type of atom of same element' and that 'Hydrogen' has two isotopes, Deuterium and Tritium. Somewhere in his mind, he know that, too!

"Very good! Three questions down, two to go!"

The fourth one asked: "Galena is the primary ore of which element?" He recognized that to be a metal and chose 'Lead'. Bravo! I feel like my students would have gotten that, too. But the fifth, and final, question? That was tough. "Which element has a Curie point?'

"Yikes! What's a Curie point???"

Well, as Jay told us afterward, a Curie point is "the temperature at which a metal loses its magnetism". That's not anything I ever recall talking about, ever. I would have thought it had something to do with its radioactivity, given Marie Curie's work. However, it's named for her husband, Pierre Curie, not her. Oh, well!

"So, what was the answer? 'Nickel' or 'Boron'?"

'Nickel'. I bet he'll never forget that! I know I won't. Nice to learn something new, especially when it's from an unexpected source like a game show.

sent billy and joe to the bank

 
I feel like that was the biggest thing that got accomplished at this meeting.
We were gathered together - me, Michael T, Brenda, Sabrina, John, Eddie, and even Larry Jackson - yet again at the Two First Posts of Georgia, trying to iron out the wrinkles that persisted and threatened to mar our planned opening on May 25.
The front doors had not been ordered, much less replaced.
The security system electronics and wiring had not been bought, much less actually installed.
The televisions and mounting hardware for the bar and dining area had not been purchased, much less installed.
Why were those not yet accomplished?
All were awaiting funds to be delivered.
Seriously.   
After almost exactly a month, those were all delayed by money.
Seriously.
The worst of it was this: the money was in the bank, but trying to arrange a time for the money man to meet with the three purchasers was gumming up the works.
But Eddie was texting on the phone with the money man during much of the meeting, and toward the end of the second hour - yes, two hours of stirring, with nothing yet cooked - he told us that Justin, the contractor, would be meeting with Doug at the bank at 10 AM to get the funds to order the doors.
Hallelujah!!!
Then I spoke up: "Contact Billy and Joe and have them meet Doug at the bank, too, to they can take care of the security system and the entertainment."
Not, "see when Doug can meet with Billy" and "see when Doug can meet with Joe", as we've had far too much of that dillydallying.
Just have the ones in need of money meet the money man when he was already going to be at the bank.
And so that's what Michael T did, sending texts out right then to both Billy and Joe to let them know what was going on.
I do hope they all got together there.
Forward is the direction we need this business to go.
One good happenstance did come from our being there so long tonight.
Kay's son had a baseball game in the area and, when she rode by and saw our cars, she came in to talk.
She's looking at the name "Whiskey Tango Foxtrot" for the canteen and we all thought that would be grand!
She said they'll have a contract at the next meeting for us to go over.
That would be grand, too.
There's supposed to be an American Legion District Meeting here on May 2nd, and it's a big shindig.
The Women's Auxiliary of Post 500 met tonight, too, in their space, and they'll be selling lunches for that event.
However, we need to make sure there of plenty of chairs and tables to accommodate about 110 people... and we don't yet have those.
Our next meeting will be on Wednesday, April 29th.
Let's hope some kinks have been ironed out by then.

assorted sneakers in row of dryers

"What's that, dearie?"

That's part of what it sounded like. I had an MRI of my brain this afternoon, over at the Savannah VA Center. Part of the testing reminded me of the banging noise that sneakers make. Only thing is, the sound was much, much, much louder. I'm glad they gave me ear plugs, as I don't think I could have stood the din!

"Sneakers in a dryer... that's an interesting correlation."

I actually have Michael Kavanaugh to thank for that. He posted the above cartoon on fb and I happened to spot it. WASH 'n' DRY 'n' MRI, it says, in a laundromat with a twist!

"Oh, my. That's a pretty narrow channel for your body!"

Yes, it was. I was scrunched down onto this gurney, arms tight against my side and partly on my chest and abdomen, shoulders jabbed against these plastic knobs that held my head in place, and a sheet draped over my body to keep it all in place. They had what seemed like a catcher's mask over my face. Then they gave me a 'panic ball' to hold, telling me to keep my eyes closed and try not to breathe deeply during the the twenty-minute procedure. That was absolutely the longest twenty minutes of my life. The noisiest, too.

"A 'panic ball'! So you could have stopped the test at any time?"

Sure. However, I stayed the course. I've been waiting for almost two years for this MRI. Remember when I started having ophthalmogic migraines, back in 2019?  They began without any pain or headache, just psychedelic sunshower auras radiating out from my central vision, making it impossible to truly see anything and causing vertigo. The trip to the ER at Memorial Hospital involved a CT scan of my head, as well as other tests to rule out stroke or heart issues. The upshot was I needed to see an ophthalmologist. Ah, but first I must go to Charleston so the veteran hospital could rule for themselves what I needed. (It would be another few years before I would learn that the VA MISSION Act of 2018 gave me the right to have refused that and to insist on local community care instead.) 

"Does this story ever get to a current point?"

Well, last year, my ophthalmologist at the Savannah VA Center, Dr. Urban, asked if I was still having those ophthalmogic migraines or any blurriness in my vision. I told him I was! Very little of the sunshower stuff, but sudden blurriness for no reason several times a year. He said that originated from within my brain, not from my eyes, and he called them acephalgic migraines. He recommended that I see a neurologist and get an MRI. I passed that along to my PCP, Susan Barker, and she concurred. Finally, last December, I got that neurology appointment, with Dr. Diaz at the Savannah VA Center. He agreed that an MRI was warranted and today that came to pass. What an ordeal this has been!

"I'm glad you stayed with the process. You know how it works in the medical field, when you have to see a specialist. It just takes time, lots of time. So, when do you get to discuss the results with Dr. Diaz?"

That will be on May 5th. Becky and Maureen, the technicians, told me the results would be posted within 48 hours, so I may look at them before I see him. Right now, I just want to take a quiet break. As well as the din from the tumbling sneakers, there were periodic bursts that can only be likened to the shrill tornado alert drills that we get every month. Only these were very much louder, too. So loud!

"Fortunately, that's all done now. Just take a little down time and mellow out. Don't forget you have an American Legion meeting tonight, though. That's at 5:30 for the Two First Posts."

Got it. I hope that will be the last one!

Sunday, April 19, 2026

today, i went to a muse-ical in rincon!


And guess what?
Orpheus was there, singing "Time In A Bottle"!!!
He dedicated it to the long-gone Eurydice. 
That guy has gotten around, hasn't he?
First he was in the play last week, and now he's in Rincon at the Hive Repertory Theater's event!
Not that he was the focus of this jukebox musical.
Not hardly.
In "The Olympians", the spotlight is on the three goddesses having a grudge match about who was best.
To settle it, they each choose a human to set on a quest, with the winning goddess being the one whose choice reaches Mount Olympus first.
Here's warrior Zoey, to whom Artemis sings "You Make My Dreams" come true!
Wooo hooo, woohoo!
Aphrodite found Lexi as her champion!
The girl was singing about the "goddess on the mountain top... had what no one else had!"
Hey, "Venus" is just another name for the love goddess!
As for Athena, a goatherd named Sofia was the one she beseeched to "Breakaway" from her grandma and go on a quest to find the lost girdle of Hippolyta.
And what looks odd here?
Sofia is reading from a script!
Get this: she was tagged just two hours before the play to be on stage for someone who was sick - what a valiant trouper!
Aphrodite was another trouper, stepping in only a week ago for someone who had to leave - amazing!!!
So, here we are: three goddesses, three humans, with each expected to run their own quest.
Instead, the trio of girls mystify the goddesses by working together!
Here they are on the streets of Athens, trying to stay ahead of the police.
Why are they being chased?
Lone females aren't allowed to wander about!
That's what the gate guards told them and those mustache-wearing guys are serious!
Back and forth across the stage ran the guard!
"One Way Or Another", they sang, "we're gonna find ya, we're gonna getcha getcha getcha getcha!"
Fortunately for our plucky trio of humans...
and Lexi's younger brother, Zander...
the guards never even come close to getting them.
Whew!
Next stop: the Oracle, to receive clues to the girdle's location.
They didn't realize that the three goddesses hit that location first, to give the Oracle (actually the Narrator in disguise!) the scroll.
The goddesses lingered too long and had to pose as statues - lol!
But Zoey, Lexi, and Sofia finally arrive at the right place, receive their marching orders, and set off on their quest!
They're barely on it when Artemis' twin brother, Apollo, throws a monkey wrench into the mix, having all but Zoey "Walking On Sunshine" as a shortcut, kinda sorta.
End of Act One!
I sure did enjoy this very much!!!
Plus, the crew at HiveRepTh did me a solid, granting me a seat that was front and center of the stage - y'all know what I like!!!
Oh, and there was even a joke from Orpheus!
Zander picked up the other instrument, calling it a lyre.
Orpheus corrected him, saying "No, my lyre was stolen by luters [looters]... and they didn't even know how to play it!"
Hahahahaha!!!!
Yes, this was well worth the ride to Rincon and the $20 ticket!!!

Saturday, April 18, 2026

today, i went to the library and a concert!

"That makes you a busy, vibrant woman again! Good for you!"

Almost. (smile!) Those two adventures had me crossing from midtown to southside to lower midtown before coming back home. Not that I'm done this weekend. I have a musical out in Rincon tomorrow! None of these places today had a spot for me to use my handicapped parking permit, so I got a little walking in, too.

"Good for you again, I say! Any amount of walking is what you need to get those leg muscles built back up. Anyway, what was up at Southwest Chatham Library on a Saturday afternoon?"

A documentary and discussion. Remember that banned books talk earlier this year? The movie I saw today, "The Librarians", was also shown around that time, but I missed it. I'm glad to have finally caught it! Apparently, the post-pandemic paranoia started a big push against books having topics of homosexuality, race, and discrimination. The ban even applied to books written by LGBTQ, black, or brown authors, and started in Texas, Florida, New Jersey, and Louisiana. I'm glad they had New Jersey in the mix, so it didn't look like a Southern thing!

"I wonder why they chose today?"

I have to believe it's because Right To Read Day is coming up on Monday. That isn't a national holiday, but something Danielle told me about on fb. It's being promoted by the American Library Association, in honor of their 150th anniversary

"Okay, that makes sense."

Heidi and Jennifer and a couple of other Asbury folks were there, too. Nice! We all stayed for the discussion afterward between Lola Dewitt - the Executive Director of Live Oak Public Library in this area - as well as Nate Coulter, the Executive Director of Central Arkansas Library System. He had a very amusing anecdote for us!

"Oh, do tell!"

One of the patrons came in and checked out 53 - yes, fifty-three!!! - children's books, leaving a note in the book return that she would not be returning them as they dealt with banned topics. Coulter was notified and suspended her library card. A few days later, the woman was back to pick up two James Patterson books she'd wanted, only to find out she could not because her account was suspended! When she spoke with Coulter, she claimed that she had taken the children's books as an act of civil disobedience. He informed her that as long as she kept the children's books, her account would be suspended, as the library had the right to protect its assets. The woman thought for a moment, then agreed to return the books she'd taken! Guess she really wanted those Patterson books!

"Hahahaha! More likely that she was fine with being 'disobedient' as long as it didn't negatively impact what she wanted. Good for Coulter for standing up to her bully tactics!"

Amen to that! I drove from there to the First Presbyterian Church, over on Washington Avenue. I missed most of the introduction about the fundraising group, but not any of the music. See, this concert was part of their 'Music With A Mission" series, with proceeds to benefit Hope Arbor. There were Asburians there, too! Tom Lewis was present with Karen Townsend, as well as her parents, Mickey and Bob. I ran into them after the concert, as I was looking to see if anyone left their program behind. They had run out when I arrived late. Luckily, Tom found one for me!

"Most excellent! I'm glad Tom is getting out and about. What a year he had, losing his partner, his brother, and then his father, all within months of each other. I'm glad you'll be seeing him next weekend for the Asbury Theatre group outing."

Yes, I'm looking forward to that! I'm glad I found out about this concert! Kathy Mayin told me about it and I had expected to see her here. Titled "Center Stage: A Night Of Broadway featuring Savannah Voices", it was almost two hours of songs!!! My favorite of the eighteen performed was a huge surprise, which made it even more special. Suade Anderson and Tegan Miller sang "Suddenly Seymour"!!! I felt like it must have been just for me!!! I even gave them a standing ovation after they finished!!!

"G'friend, you are just too much sometimes!!! LOL!"

Hey, we both know I adore that song, and have for years. I'll even sing the duet all by myself if I can't find someone who knows it!

"Yes, I well recall you startling the folks at Post 36 one karaoke night. They never knew what to expect from you."

Songs I want to hear, that's what! These were songs I wanted to hear, too. Songs like "Some Enchanted Evening", "I Could Have Danced All Night", "Man Of La Mancha", "You'll Never Walk Alone", and "Moon River". That last one wasn't even on the program! The director, Danny Cohen - that's him on the far left on stage - just threw it on there so we'd have a little Johnny Mercer. Very nice!

"How very appropriate, too, as Savannah was Mercer's home. Are those the other singers from this concert?"

Indeed they are! From the left, that's Danny Cohen, Suade Anderson, Rebecca Flaherty, Tegan Miller, and Jillian Durant. All so very talented! I have to wonder if any of them are part of the Savannah VOICE program. There were two songs - "Lily's Eyes" and "Sing For Your Supper" - that I've only ever heard from them. Nice to have heard them again!

"I'm so glad you had such a nice day and evening! Hope you have fun at the play in Rincon tomorrow, too!"

Thanks, I'm sure I will. Now, time to catch up with the Buckets! Lol!

Friday, April 17, 2026

today, i made the friday fiesta!


I celebrated by ordering the Shrimp Ceviche!

Yes, a celebration was most def in order.

I'd missed the ones on April 3rd and 10th, though Tony and Laura had brought home chips and salsa for me after that first one.

Such a good brother!

I was determined to see both of my brothers this time, and so I did, getting hugs in Jalapenos when I entered and hugs outside when we were all leaving!

Hugs from my family and friends are as much a part of this time together as is the shared meal itself!

I know Robin has found that to be true, too, after the death of her husband, Harry.

I do wonder sometimes if I started that hugging part of the ritual or if it was already in place before I started coming out to Jalapenos?

I'm just thankful for all that touch!

We were all giving hugs to Claudia tonight, too.

Our favorite waitress for these S&K Friday Fiestas is off to her family's home in Mexico for a month and won't be at Jalapenos next week.

As I told her, I'm so glad I was there tonight!

I would have been so sad to have missed her.

I know we'll all be taking a break from Sandfly next week.

We'll either be at Tubby's or at Spanky's, but not here.

It'll be good to have a change of pace!

(smile!)

Now, I'm going to settle in to watch "The Accountant", my Diamond Reward from Comcast this week.

My guess is the title was chosen as an inside joke!

After all, Wednesday was the last day to file income taxes! 

Hopefully they know he's really a hit man!

Hahahaha!

Thursday, April 16, 2026

today, i wore an easter bonnet!

"Put on your Easter bonnet
with all the frills upon it
and we will have 
a very merry
That Irving Berlin song from 1933 has been on my mind ever since the theme of this Sisters In Faith luncheon was announced last month.
Such a catchy little number!
I fashioned my head-topper by wrapping the Periodic Table scarf around the bright pink bowl of the hat that always brings happy thoughts of Mama.
Thanks, Cathy of El Cerrito, for that gift!
It went so well with my Spring-time dress!
That's what Linda Combs and Michelle Meece told me, so I know it to be true!
Here they are, with our gracious event planner wearing one of the cutest hats there!
Just look at those bunny ears!!!
Linda, I just know Bugs Bunny would be thrilled, too!!!
Those were more bunny ears, too.
That's Sherry Giddens, at the end of my table, sporting huge ears atop her bonnet!
Judy Wilburn's summer hat boasted flowers against its straw!
And there were three ladies at the table beside us who all wore flower-bedecked bonnets! 
That's Kathy Hodges, in the pink dress, in the middle, between the lady in the orange hat and the one in the green.
My table had a mother and daughter wearing bonnets!
The daughter, Jenni, had her 61st birthday yesterday.
Her mom, Linda, tried to scoot out of the photo, but I caught her!
To me, they were the belles of this ball at Holliday Hall - they brought three boxes of Chick-Fil-A nuggets!!!
I signed up to bring finger sandwiches, substituting two trays of sushi.
(That's them between the chips and tower of cucumber sandwiches.)
Cheri Hester brought sushi, too, as did one other - so much for me bringing something different!
That just meant I had sushi to take home for dinner tonight.
(smile!)
Here's the array of Easter bonnets that came today, arranged in competition on the stage here at Asbury Memorial's social hall.
I bet there were at least fifteen!!!
That's Linda and Michelle, making sure each entry has been assigned a number for the voting process.
 
The winner was worn by Cece Colman!
That's her, on the left, with the Mexican sombrero-style hat with all the fringe and little Easter bunnies.
I bet that laden bonnet weighed at least ten pounds!
That's means I wouldn't have been able to pick it up, per post-surgery orders, for at least another three weeks.
That's pretty impressive, as was the hat with the twinkle lights!
Here's a funny story!
Right after I snapped that photo, the two women realized their hats had gotten snagged.
Oh, no!
But I have plenty of practice with branches in my long hair, so set to work untangling Cece's fringe from Mary's foliage.
I just let my fingers feel their way, loosening the two from each other, just as I've done in my yard on many occasions.
Hooray!
And who was our guest speaker today?
Kim Polote, someone I'd rescued from a clothing emergency years ago!
It was while I was a volunteer usher at the Lucas Theatre.
She was to perform in a Christmas show, but the gown she was in didn't quite fit at the top of the bodice.
I happened to be in the bathroom when she was in distress about her dress...
and I happened to have several safety pins with me...
so, calamity avoided and distress dispersed!
Right place, right time!
Of course, that's been at least fifteen years ago.
Today, she was there to share songs with us at this happy luncheon!
"Wind Beneath My Wings" was merged seamlessly into "Over The Rainbow" before she said her first words to us.
Later, led us all in singing "This Little Light Of Mine", clapping joyously!
Then she gave us "Change Is Gonna Come" and one her own songs, "Everything Must Change".
In between all that music, she told her life stories and encouraged us to "find the message in the mess" life sometimes hands us.
Absolutely lovely!
She also talked of celebrating the joy wherever we find it, even in a movie, such as "Me, You & Tuscany"...
and I spoke up that I'd just seen it yesterday!!!
That made her smile and got everyone's attention. 
Right place, right time!