This woman taking a photo of Frank is his new wife, Kathy. They reconnected a year or so ago at their high school reunion and knew it was love!
Saturday, August 29, 2026
friday night lights, 17 years ago
This woman taking a photo of Frank is his new wife, Kathy. They reconnected a year or so ago at their high school reunion and knew it was love!
Saturday, August 22, 2026
she was only 63, too
Thursday, August 20, 2026
a quartet and a plus-one from tom of amc
Monday, August 10, 2026
what's the perfect amount of ice, ice, baby?
Remember, Savannah has lots of humidity, so add 10 degrees to those highs.
I run that dining room air conditioner at night, which manages to get the living areas of the house down to about 77 F, which is fine by me.
That means those areas get to the mid-80's in the afternoons.
Again, that's fine by me, and keeps my electric bill below $100 each month.
But part of the reason it's fine by me is I drink a lot of iced fluids.Ivan Shreve, my fellow member of the League of Savannah Bloggers, posted the above meme on fb to take a poll about that.
"What's the perfect amount of ice?"
In true form as an analytical chemist, I didn't give him just one number.
"2 usually, sometimes 3, unless it's cold outside. Then it's 1."
He liked that response.
Why not 4 as one of my preferences?
That's too much ice, making it difficult to drink without getting liquids running down my chin or onto my clothing.
Speaking of "perfect", tonight at Music Bingo, Andrew, the new bartender, took my drink order at the table.
Marcia was already in the booth, and the others had not yet arrived.
Andrew asked what I wanted and I said "water", as that's my usual.
He asked, "With or without lemon?"
"Surprise me," I responded... and he did!
I was the only one at our table of 4 that had both lime and lemon!Sandy and Elissa ordered their drinks from our waiter, and just got lemon.
(smile!)
None of us won any of the games tonight, but we sure had fun!
"House Party Mix" and "Modern Country Mix #2" were both good music, but it was that first game, with the "Covers Mix", that had us all pleasantly surprised.
Fergie sang Heart's "Barracuda"?
The White Stripes covered "I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself"?
Diana Ross singing "Ain't No Mountain High Enough" was a cover?
Like I said, it was a fun evening with my friends!
Now, it's time for "The Quiz With Balls" and guess who they have tonight?
Star Wars Nerds versus Models - that should be good for a few laughs!
Thursday, August 6, 2026
stepping into the light, at last!
Tuesday, August 4, 2026
bday80 and bday68 dinners with friends!
My dear friend Carolyn turned 80 years old last Friday, but was quite busy being regaled by others - hooray!
Wednesday, July 29, 2026
meals and more with my girls!!!
This was the first time any of us had been since the debacle a month ago.
"Us" would be me, Sandy, Marcia, and Elissa.
Hey, we've been busy, vibrant, women, a'ight, with family from out of town, cruises, and what-not going on!
I remembered to bring my free appetizer reward that I won about six weeks ago, too.
Fortunately, Midtown Sports Grill has changed their menu yet again.
Potato Skins is a new entry, loaded with bacon and cheddar, and that made for a mighty fine "welcome back" dinner with my friends!
And just look at that first bingo game of the evening!!!
That "Dance Party Mix" yielded me the first "Bingo!" of the bar!
Russ was even surprised that I'd won without using the 'Free Space' - I'd managed to do it with five actual songs that had been played, straight down the "I" column!!!
Andrew, the new bartender, was glad to bring me a free lemonade as my "free drink" reward for the game!
How wonderful to have shared that those three hours with friends!
(smile!)
Then, today, my first niece came to share a favorite movie with me!This was the last week of the NCG Summer Camp Film Festival and they've been screening "The Wild Robot" since Sunday.
We love that movie about parenting and kindness!!!
Want to know how much?
She stayed awake through the entire movie!!!
That's saying a lot, as she has sleep apnea and tends to take a nap if she sits in one place too long.
That wasn't the case two weeks ago when she joined me for "Sing", but that was okay... it let me munch some of her popcorn!
That time, she was early and bought our tickets and kids' packs; this time, she was running on her standard time, so I bought the tickets and snacks.
(smile!)
After, we popped over to the Chick-Fil-A on Victory for our luncheon.
So glad the lunch crowd had mostly passed by then!
She grabbed the last table and we had a leisurely two hours together...
just us, no children, no boyfriend...
letting us truly talk about issues with that latter item.
Here's hoping for the best resolution for that problem.
Oh, plus a really bright spot!
We had been talking about friends from the past and she mentioned one of her middle-school buddies and spoke of them spending nights together.
"So, you're friends still, on fb?"
No, they weren't... but she quickly found her on that social media... and they are now reunited again!
Maybe I should do a few searches of lost friends, too.
(smile!)
Monday, July 27, 2026
christmas fun for my return from the cruise!
Friday, July 17, 2026
i think the word you want is 'fiasco'
"The word I want?"
Okay, then, the word that would be more appropriate for this episode of the S&K Friday Fiesta than that last one. We all knew that John and Sherry Schomburg would be in town and would be visiting with their friends from the old neighborhood - that is, my brothers and the Kameron brothers and Betsy - at Jalapenos of Sandfly. We knew because Smitty told us last week.
"Oh, how very nice! Always good to see old friends and hear the tales form "back in the day" that seem to come out then!"
You would think so, right? But when Tony and Laura arrived, a fourth table was added to the end and suddenly they were cut off from the regular crowd. They found themselves sitting by the Schomburg's daughter, Ashley, as well as her husband and their two young daughters (ages 4 and 6, as I recall). That was not good. When I joined them, that seemed to add to the unsettled feeling somehow, and Tony and Laura left.
"What? You mean, they didn't stay to eat? Seriously?"
Tony said he felt he'd been disrespected, and i could understand that. This is the only time of the week when he is with men who aren't coworkers. This is his time with his brother and friends he's known since he was a kid. I could understand where he was coming from, as I went through a lot of that when I returned from the Navy.
"Even so, this was a special occasion. John and Sherry were just trying to have family and friends time, so the arrangement was thrown off."
Not quite. The first two tables were as they always are, with the guys on one side and the gals on the other. Where it all fell apart was the middle table with that young family. I feel like things could have been handled better, but, oh well. Then Laura returned, solo, and TOOK A CHAIR - from the third table - TO ADD TO THE FIRST TABLE - so she could sit with the other gals of our regular party - AND THEY MADE ROOM FOR HER. Like, seriously. She couldn't sit with me and the guests for this one meal???
"Oh, this doesn't sound like it's gonna end well..."
So I bounced up to that first table and got onto all the gals from disrespecting Ashley and her family, who were there as guests. They left Ashley and her husband to just sit as outcasts at that third table, as none of the gals were talking to them. Well, God bless Betsy! She picked up her plate and her drink and came down to the fourth table with me!!! She's such a trooper!!! And she ended up charming the little girls and giving Ashley a chance to eat her meal!
"Well, that sounds marvelous! That Betsy, she can carry on a conversation with just about anyone, can't she?"
Yes, she can! As I said, God bless Betsy. I'm glad I have the cruise next week, so I will have at least one week away. Maybe it's time for me to take a break from this. After all, the Schomburgs started it with Smitty and Mary, like ten years ago, so I'm just along because I'm a Smith kid. Maybe I need to start a new tradition, like the second Thursday go out with just my brothers. Something like that. We'll see. But I'm not gonna let it bother me tonight, as the Atlanta Rhythm Section put it. "The world is in an uproar and there ain't no end in sight, but I will not let it bother me tonight, no, I won't." I have a birthday vacation that starts on Sunday and all else can wait until my return.
"Good for you. Don't let it put you off and make you miss it. I know how much you hated missing out on that Las Vegas trip last fall. You go with Christina and her girls and have a wonderful summer holiday together, as y'all have for the past few years. See you when you return... and don't forget the sunscreen!".
















































