Friday, August 1, 2025
love for earth day ... headed 2 4 lil blondes
Thursday, July 31, 2025
happy bday79, Carolyn!
coming at me from all angles
Change has been hitting me hard this month.
I have lost Medicaid's medical assistance with my Medicare Part B premium.
Remember that I was waiting for my application to be reviewed?
It turns out the problem had been that the person in charge at Medicare had not assigned my application to a caseworker.
I found out when I called the caseworker who handled my previous application for medical benefits.
She immediately contacted her boss, who made sure someone was assigned toot suite, and their decision came within a day of all that.
That decision had been "no", unfortunately.
Not because of my monthly income, mind - that is $500 below the maximum allowed threshold for Medicaid.
No, the problem is with the little amounts in my two IRAs, the amounts I cannot access because those certificates are not yet at their maturity date.
Georgia still regards that as cash assets... even though they aren't.
That denial of medical assistance through Medicaid means I've also lost anything that the Dual Advantage Medicare plan would have paid.
So, not only am I will I continue to be out the $185 for the monthly premium, as I have been since May when I was waiting for the application to be reviewed, but I'm also on the hook for the $300 for the teeth cleaning.
I spent 45 minutes on the phone with my UHC Healthcare Navigator, Teal, about all of this hot mess and my upcoming dental visits for the cavities.
She tried to find remedies for me, but most of those sources are geared for helping children, not seniors.
However, she did hook me up with Lisa at UHC so I could get out of that Dual Advantage plan and into something better.
Lisa has me set up with the Patriot plan, the one I've been on for the past two years, but with a difference.
This one pays more of my monthly premium, though it will not have the over-the-counter perks I've had in the past.
Still, that trade-off is to my financial benefit.
She also had me sign up for the dental rider that will pay for my trip to the dentist in September.
I already know the charge for those two fillings will be almost $700; the cost of the dental rider is $54 per month and can be canceled at any time.
So, after I get the fillings installed and that bill paid by the rider, I'll cancel and only be out the two months of cost for the rider.
It's still going to be money flowing out of my pocket, but just a dribble, not a torrent.
Better, but not great.
That leads to the letter I received yesterday from the VA.
It told me my PCP, NP Susan Barker, has retired.
Not that she "is retiring", but that she has retired.
I cried when I told that to my nutritionist at our meeting today.
The letter did not say who will be my new PCP.
Nor do I know the status of the Community Care Authorizations that I've been awaiting for my mammogram and my cardiologist.
Hardest of all has been the lack of notification directly from Ms. Barker.
I had my 6-month appointment with her just last week, on the 22nd.
She had not mentioned her retirement at all.
She did hustle me out to get the Referral For Services form from Dr. Cobb's office... but she said nothing about her no longer being at the VA Center.
I'm very sad about her leaving.
Very sad.
At least AMC has a 2 PM screening with Wolf, Snake, Shark, Tarantula, and Piranha in their latest caper.
I hope that will help lift my spirits.
Wednesday, July 30, 2025
at the movies with cc-east!
stepping out on amc with ncg
Sunday, July 27, 2025
billy billie bill
Saturday, July 26, 2025
summer potluck in the 'hood!
Did I say "in the 'hood"?
I did, because that's where the party was!
See that young woman blessing the food?
That's Joan Thompson, the organizer of this fete at Forrest Hills.
She's standing with her neighbors, Sara and Kenneth, as well as two of her kids.
This shot has two of the people I sat with and got to know for an hour.They're Lori and Josh, from Guam, and she made the chicken dish (like Nam Sod) and the beef (like Larb Na) that I so enjoy in Thai cuisine.
On my plate, those are at 5 o'clock and 1 o'clock, along with adobo cucumbers, red rice, pancit, lima beans, smoked pork butt, and white peach cobbler.The butt was cooked this morning by Dallas, husband of Joan, and it was yummy, but the cobbler I went back for seconds!
That was made by my other table mate, Jessie.
Get this: she and Lori were both in the health field, so we talked about college and chemistry and nursing!
We also talked about our travels in the world!
I had been concerned about coming alone, as I didn't know any of these people, but then I wound up sitting with people that were like me!
Right place, right time!
I'm so glad I walked over there on this hot day and took a chance!
(smile!)
Friday, July 25, 2025
un otro cumpleaƱos en JalapeƱos!
in reflection
Thursday, July 24, 2025
trips to los angeles? yes, please!
AMC is offering three sweepstakes with nearly identical prizes... and all three involve travel to California!!!
The Last Heist Of The Summer Sweepstakes is in conjunction with "The Bad Guys 2" movie.The winner gets a 4-day/3-night trip, including airfare and hotel accommodations for FOUR, as well as a 5-hour tour of the town, for tickets to an escape room adventure, and $500 to spend.
WOW!!!
The Hollywood Escape Sweepstakes is associated with the remake of "The Naked Gun", featuring Liam Neeson in a comedic turn.The winner gets a 3-day/2-night trip, including airfare and hotel accommodations for TWO, as well as Paramount Pictures Studio VIP tour for two, admission for two to the law enforcement museum, admission for two to a live taping of a late-night show, and $1000.
WOW!!!
The Freakier L.A. Sweepstakes is brought by the folks behind Disney's "Freakier Friday", featuring Jamie Lee Curtis and Lindsay Lohan again.The winner gets a 4-day/3-night trip, including airfare and hotel accommodations for TWO, private 8-hour tour of the city, travel voucher from airport to hotel, travel voucher from hotel to tour, restaurant credit near the hotel, and $500 to spend.
WOW!!!
Honestly, I'm good for any of the three!Speaking of that number, that's how many dances were on my A*List.
"Superman" was fabulous to see again, and I watched it right before my PCP appointment at the Savannah VA.
The nurse, Sarah, is new to the area and didn't know about Tina Tuesdays and discounted tickets all day and all night at all the cinemas around here.
Glad I could enlighten her on that!
The other two were a double header today, and what a mixed bag!
"Smurfs" was a bit better than expected, with its talking Tribbles and the Inside Out names of the girl's six companions.
On the other hand, "The Fantastic Four: First Steps" was unabashedly baby-centric, which I had not expected and did not like.
Seriously, why would anyone go to a superhero flick featuring pregnancy???
Nope, that's a one-and-done for me, and don't bother with the next one.
That's the second of three films this year with Pedro Pascal, including "Materialists" and the upcoming "Eddington".
He is a man of diverse talents, I grant him that.
I just wish he was more selective with his choices.
Tuesday, July 22, 2025
not the usual fare at tybee
"What's that? Did you go to one of the staged readings they've been having at the Tybee Post Theatre?"
Nope. This wasn't even something I would have selected on my own. I'd been looking at them in the event listings for months, but not for me... for the physicist. He's been heavy into Eastern mythologies and meditation for about the last three years, at least.
"So you finally put it onto his radar?"
Nope! He texted me yesterday morning and proposed that we attend the "Sound Bath" today. How about that? And when I agreed, he bought the tickets, justthatfast, and we were set to go!
"Holy cow! That qualifies as spontaneous for him!"
Right?! So, at 5 PM he was here to whisk me down there for the 6 PM session with Carol Melton. I had thought he remembered her from Armstrong, but he did not. She worked in IT there and retired in 2016. Leading these experiences in meditation is what she's been doing the last few years. Hence, the huge collection of Tibetan singing bowls she has. She also has an Ocean drum (beads inside a drumhead, making a sound much like a rain stick), several colorful quartz singing bowls, and even some chimes."And is that colorful item on the floor your towel?"
It is! We were to bring a towel and a pillow. She had yoga mats there, so I borrowed one of those, a bright green one to match my lemons shirt. Everyone liked that!
"Am I to understand that you got down on the floor?!?"
Eventually, yes. It took a while for me to talk myself into it. Then I wasn't there long before Carol sensed my unease and encouraged me to choose a seat out in the auditorium. That's when the trouble began. With the yoga mat below me, I couldn't get my footing and ended up falling. Carol and the bfe then helped for my next try, but not before my right knee got bruised from all that leaning on it. Honestly, I should have known better.
"Honestly, you should have. You know you never get down on the floor."
I do. I just felt I owed it to the physicist to give it a try.
"You're not getting weird on him, are you? Please say you aren't."
I am not getting weird on him, I promise. His lifestyle and mine really aren't compatible for coupleship to be a consideration. He's my best friend extraordinaire, now as he has been since 2012. I just wanted to show him by active participation that I respect his choices. And I want to emphasize that I did enjoy this! Carol had dimmed all the lights and I closed my eyes from where I sat in the front row, letting the various tones she pulled from the instruments wash over me for the duration. I'm pretty sure I even fell asleep!
"What? You must have gotten pretty mellow for that to happen."
As I told the bfe, I felt like I'd had a massage, but without a stranger touching me. That was great! He was a bit surprised about that, but he didn't question it.
"That's interesting, given y'all's history, but he just may bring it up some other time. He was busy driving when you were saying that. Driving is not something he does for fun."
True. He didn't bring it up during dinner at Chipotle's, either. I talked about Carol's former teaching at Armstrong, as well as her being part of the Asbury Memorial family. Then I talked about seeing Kate at Bonnie's party, as I knew he knew Kate and her husband Chris. It turned out that he hasn't seen her in several years. I told him, too, about Scott's loss of Axel and me being able to refer him to Fox and Weeks, as they took such good care of his two old lady cats, Contessa and Chloe. By that time in the evening, the rain that started as we got to the restaurant had eased up. Time for him to go check on Emily the Cat!
"Nice segue!"
Thanks! And guess what? He had misplaced his phone in his apartment. We had talked about that earlier, with me assuring him I had done that many times. I also told him that every time I did lose the device, I'd think, "Oh, I should call Christina and have her call me so I can find it"... lol!!! Anyway, as he returned my towel and pillow, I suggested I could call him and maybe he could find his phone. "Great idea!", he said, then jumped in his car to head for home! Vroom!!!"
"Hahahaha! I can just picture him doing that! And were y'all successful?"
We were! I called several times, letting it ring through, waiting for him to pick up, waiting a few minutes between calls. At last, he answered! The phone had slipped off the counter and into the trash bin below. Good thing he hadn't thrown out the bag yet!
"Indeed! That's a funny and fitting end to the evening!"
Yes it was! And he said he'd heard the phone vibrate four times before he found it. I told him I was sure I'd called five times. Well, I was mistaken, as I said in my text just now. "You were right! There were 4 calls, not 5. Like when the Borgs tried to mess with Picard."
"Leave him with a laugh! Very good!"
Monday, July 21, 2025
hot and wet with a dip!
Sunday, July 20, 2025
let's have a musical: part 2
Saturday, July 19, 2025
marshmallows again!
"Oh, no, have you gotten back onto that kick?"
Not yet, but that may soon be forthcoming. Bonnie and Don just had their Midsummer Hang and marshmallows were again featured!
"Really? Another party? That's twice this year, isn't it?"
Um, no. Their first one with marshmallows was almost a year ago. Then came Hurricane Helene, throwing a tree into their back yard and generally wrecking things. They've finally gotten all that taken rectified, including rebuilding their shed, setting up a new swing, and buying a new fire pit. Time for s'mores, y'all!"Hey, I recognize those people! That's Jason Arons watching as Brenda Mattingly and Bonnie roast their marshmallows."
Actually, the women were making the chocolate-graham-mallow treats just before Brenda and John said their adieus. That neatly coincided with the arrival of Kate Strickland, nee Faford, one of the nursing students from my Italian trip in 2012. So good to see her again! Surprisingly, she didn't remember anything about the night in Salerno when our guide's brother took us to the archaeological dig. Right? That had been such a big deal for me, seeing those relics of the Roman baths that had lain beneath the bakery floor!!! No one had a clue until the new owner of the store decided to renovate and found them."That's right!!! That was so very cool, tromping around in new ruins! There was even a mosaic down there of some goddess. You need to find those photos. How did that even come up in conversation?"
I was talking with Bonnie, Don, Roberta, Lavon, and Jason, over by the new swing set, and the topic of roads in Savannah came up. Ever since Abercorn was resurfaced, it's an obstacle course to avoid the manhole covers that were left lower than the new road. I brought up the ripples in Drayton Street that have risen about three decades ago and no one knew what I was talking about. They are all young enough to regard those as "always having been there", but I remembered when Drayton was flat. Then we got into a talk about the substrate and the shifting, overlapped, layers of sand and clay in this area and how those layers have been added to in the two centuries since Savannah was built, especially with the addition of multi-story hotels and other structures in the last two decades. I held that those new weights had changed the dynamics of the substrate, resulting in Drayton's ripple."And all of that led to the Roman ruins in Salerno?"
Rabbit holes, right? They're not just on the internet!
"For sure. Hey, that's Don and Roberta in the other photo, right?"
You betcha! And here were Chris and Barbara Gooby, for the second time this week. Kate had just arrived moments before they left for a dinner somewhere. Weekends can be so very busy, you know?"I do! Plus there are all the musicals going on..."
Right? So many choices for a busy, vibrant, woman!